re: military and cheating

<blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" If I thought my hubby was heating, I wouldn't go to the command til I was sure it was physical cheating---wouldn't ... [snip!] ... want him to lose his rank, etc if I thought we could work it out. But I'd make him go to counseling for sure"</blockquote>

Some people don't care   unfortunately.

tell her not to go the command if he is cheating, why ruin his career. you wouldn't go on tell your SO boss that work at mc donald's if he was cheating. tell her to either get some counseling or leave him. i know she is hurt but running to command isn't going help much.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" If that's the case, majority of soldiers would be in big trouble on a regular basis. I sent my husband smut all the time."</blockquote>




Lol maybe he didnt open conversations you two had privately in front of others

Quoting Stephanie Vetor:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" If that's the case, majority of soldiers ... [snip!] ... smut all the time."</blockquote> Lol maybe he didnt open conversations you two had privately in front of others"

Well yeah, my husband isn't an idiot. He wouldn't go opening a photo when he's around other people.

Quoting P Pickle Pants:" If I thought my hubby was heating, I wouldn't go to the command til I was sure it was physical cheating---wouldn't ... [snip!] ... want him to lose his rank, etc if I thought we could work it out. But I'd make him go to counseling for sure"

My thoughts exactly.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" Right. Your whole family really does get punished when someone cheats in the military. If you turn the ... [snip!] ... I see a lot of spouses just go the divorce route rather than turning them in so their childrens needs and wants are still met."</blockquote>



I'd try counseling. If he cheated again, I'd quietly divorce and go home.

He's an amazing man and a great Marine. He's earned those stripes with blood, sweat, tears, and broken bones. I won't take that from him.

But I think of the two of us, I'm the more likely cheater. Not that I would even begin down that road, I just know he'd never even think about it. Cheaters disgusted him. He takes it very seriously when he has to investigate one of his Marines for it

My future brother in law got his rank down when he was cheating on SO sister.the idiot lied about leaving for a week for training.ended up renting a hotel and recorded himself dancing with girls.He also wasn't giving her money for her and her son.He got his rank back after a few months.Times changed..When my dad cheated on my Mon more than once the commander got in his ass but never lowered him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" If I thought my hubby was heating, I wouldn't go to the command til I was sure it was physical cheating---wouldn't ... [snip!] ... want him to lose his rank, etc if I thought we could work it out. But I'd make him go to counseling for sure"</blockquote>




Yes exactly she doesnt want his career in jepordy thats why i asked she said if he looses a rank then thats less money she will get in CS. :/ i was like oh boy this is going to be a fun ride.   she just doesnt wanna be with him anymore.