Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I would be informing my DH that I would be staying with family until he got his smurf together. Those ... [snip!] ... are at my house all the time. I had a few friends like that (minus the drinking) and even sober....for smurfs sake, GO HOME. "
That's basically how I've been thinking. I may just have to be prepared to stay with my mother when baby arrives. Because I just can't take the
"everything is about dh" and having a good time. He's also going fishing this week. I already told him that i didn't think it was a good idea with my being this far along for you to be hours out on the ocean all day. He doesn't care he said he'd be there. But he'll be with his dad whom will not race back whether Im in labor or not. If I go into labor Im tempted to no even smurfing call him. Oh and I have said if he keeps putting me and his child last that HE WILL NOT have a family to even decide between that he will be alone. We fought all weekend because he smurfing popped my two year old in the face for saying NO. Like the side of the eye. I said YOU WILL NEVER SmUrfING do that again. He argued with me and said if he says no again I will. He wanted to say his brother does that to his daughter and thats why she listens. Luckily his brother was on my side with that. Says you should never smack your child in the face/