Quoting Lizplustwo:" Sounds like your stepdaughter didn't want to go and be the odd man out. She may have felt self-conscious ... [snip!] ... upset...he did the right thing. You should NEVER make him choose between you and his daughter. Good for him for choosing her."
I never wanted it to come out as him choosing between me and her. I was just stating I was sick of trying to be a part of her life when it clearly isnt working. I try to be there for her and help her. But I expect when I ask for help from her which isnt very often she comes and goes here as she pleases and she agrees to help she should follow threw.
I asked before asking her if there would be volunteers to help with the girls and I was told no but that if I found someone they would allow them to walk with me.