Quoting Safka9973:" Most people said they did not test. I don't think many of these folks are sharing their thoughts though. ... [snip!] ... spur of the moment type situations? Or did you not because like my hubby you didn't care at that point in your life?"
I used condoms and never went without them until my ex (after we were tested when the condom broke) and with Tony... I honestly didnt care. I knew I'd be with him for a long time, and so it didnt matter. Now.... I am scared smurfless of them. Being single and sleeping with someone new.... nuh uh hes getting tested.
But I dont ever want to be with another guy. Im fine with celibacy. I only want my ex.... seriously.