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No you're not in the wrong. It is up to him to take some initiative to get his child and not his grandma. What happened with the girlfriend?

If it is in your court order that he himself has to pick your child up then I see no reason why you should bend the rules for his gf. However if it doesn't say that I think you legally have to let his grandmother take him. It says a lot about him as a person if he is picking his girlfriend over time with his child. What a scum bag.

No your not wrong. He needs to grow a pair and tell his GF that it's not about seeing you it's about seeing his kid. Can he not drive himself? Like borrow his GF's or grandmas car and go get him without her?

No you're not. If she doesn't want to see you then your BD should leave her home. That's just ridiculous that he can't come to that conclusion himself, and if she doesn't like it then tough.

Take those texts to court! She shouldn't be around your son.

Quoting Once Upon A Time♥:" They broke up and me and I went over to my BD's to have a conversation, since we could never seem to ... [snip!] ... kid. In the past she has called him a slow ass baby because he could not talk. She is always saying mean things about my son. "

What a witch. How he could stay with a girl that says such horrible things about his son says enough about him already.

Is there anyone else who would be able to meet up your bd for drop offs/pickups? If not she needs to grow up, if she doesn't want to see you then she can stay in the car

Quoting Once Upon A Time♥:" They broke up and me and I went over to my BD's to have a conversation, since we could never seem to ... [snip!] ... kid. In the past she has called him a slow ass baby because he could not talk. She is always saying mean things about my son. "

Ohhhh I see.

They broke up, she needs to get over it.