Quoting darlaMacias:" To get irriated when my husbands ex girlfriend that he has a son with calls and talks about what's going ... [snip!] ... talking about how their son is doing but talking about what's going on In her or her families life is really unessesary."
Does he have a problem with it?
Because if they talk because they are friends then that's a GOOD THING. There is a kid in the middle of them remember, just because you are his wife/partner/lover now doesn't mean he shouldn't have a healthy, good relationship with his child's mother.
I think it's ridiculous when people get so bent out of shape about things like this.
Is she hitting on your DH?? Is she being inappropriate? If not then what's the big deal?
I talk to my BD/ex about his life and mine, because what goes on in his life goes on in my son's life too and I like to know what's up.