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re: Domestic Abuse?.. did I deserve it? (video)

posted 2nd Dec
thank you...
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I live in Arizona
posted 2nd Dec
Quoting BG Secrets:" yes they have known for awhile now that he's is both physically and mentally abusive towards me. They ... [snip!] ... change yourself to make them happy. You learn loopholes and how to better walk on egg shells around them so they wont hurt you."

You should not have to change or walk on egg shells around others, especially the ones you love. You do not want your LO to be around this and I know growing up with it can make it harder, but you have someone else depending on you as well now too. For him to bring your LO into arguments is COMPLETELY wrong. I saw no reason for him to raise his voice towards you, you remained very calm the whole time from what I could hear. Time to gather up the evidence and get gone..he is no man..he does not deserve that title..YOU AND LO DESERVE BETTER!!!!
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I have 2 kids & live in Texas
posted 2nd Dec
I don't know where you live but I am in northern Cali and have family and friends in az if any of that close to you please let me know and I will do whatever I can to help you. My heart breaks listening to that and I'm crying for you.
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I have 2 kids & live in San Jose, California
posted 2nd Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" Plans to move out are already in the works. I have no income of my own because I'm a SAHM. I am applying ... [snip!] ... -- that all costs money and I have none. I guess I'll have to figure it out as I go because we cannot live like this anymore."</blockquote>




Is it Phoenix?
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I live in Arizona
posted 2nd Dec
Quoting BG Secrets:" yes they have known for awhile now that he's is both physically and mentally abusive towards me. They ... [snip!] ... change yourself to make them happy. You learn loopholes and how to better walk on egg shells around them so they wont hurt you."



ugh do you know how long it is going to take you to get low income housing though? that could be a year minimum. there's zero emergency housing situations over there? try to get out ASAP... it could really damage your child  
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 2nd Dec
I wish you would reconsider. You never know when he could just snap and kill you. His anger is out of control.
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Marine Corps Base Camp Pendleton, California
posted 2nd Dec
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" I wish you would reconsider. You never know when he could just snap and kill you. His anger is out of control."
 
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I have 1 child & live in Memphis, Tennessee
posted 2nd Dec
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" I wish you would reconsider. You never know when he could just snap and kill you. His anger is out of control."



  not to mention... it could take years...
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
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posted 2nd Dec
Quoting BG Secrets:" No marks on me right now. This all happened yesterday. Things between he and I are fine right now. He's ... [snip!] ... at all. I feel ok staying here until approved for income based housing. From there I can start fresh. Get a job, etc etc."

You should get out why he isnt mad. What if next time he takes your life? I am not trying to be rude or anything, but waiting could mean it is to late for both you and your lo.
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posted 2nd Dec
Quoting *Zander's mommy*:" not bashing you or anything, you dont deserve what happened, but it sounds like you should have just ... [snip!] ... because it will make them really want to do it. im sorry about what happened though, i hope everything gets figured out soon."

 
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posted 4th Dec
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:" what was the video?"
They were arguing,he was screaming at her. He threw something with force at her.   it was just audio.
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I have 1 child & live in Memphis, Tennessee
posted 4th Dec
Quoting Kati ♥:" They were arguing,he was screaming at her. He threw something with force at her.  "

what thee smurf?
how did she even get the video out? she could easily take it too the cops.
Is she okay? I'm sorry I missed it
quotesmurfs?
I live in Ocala, Florida
posted 4th Dec
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:" what thee smurf? how did she even get the video out? she could easily take it too the cops. Is she okay? I'm sorry I missed it"
Yep even if it was just audio,it's still proof that's he is abusing her. She's smart for recording it.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Memphis, Tennessee
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