re: Domestic Abuse?.. did I deserve it? (video)

Quoting *Zander's mommy*:" not bashing you or anything, you dont deserve what happened, but it sounds like you should have just ... [snip!] ... because it will make them really want to do it. im sorry about what happened though, i hope everything gets figured out soon."

Excuse me, what did you just say?


He should have enough self control to not hit her regardless if she told him to.

This broke my heart.
Dear, you need to be gone as soon as possible. No matter what the fight was about, no matter if you said do it, no matter of anything this shouldn't happen.

It is not your fault but you do need to leave. I know it is way easier said than done but that's what needs to happen.

Quoting *Zander's mommy*:" not bashing you or anything, you dont deserve what happened, but it sounds like you should have just ... [snip!] ... because it will make them really want to do it. im sorry about what happened though, i hope everything gets figured out soon."

the smurf !?!?

Quoting *Zander's mommy*:" not bashing you or anything, you dont deserve what happened, but it sounds like you should have just ... [snip!] ... because it will make them really want to do it. im sorry about what happened though, i hope everything gets figured out soon."

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Zander's mommy*:</b>" not bashing you or anything, you dont deserve what happened, but it sounds like you should have just ... [snip!] ... because it will make them really want to do it. im sorry about what happened though, i hope everything gets figured out soon."</blockquote>




You are a smurfing wack job. Gtfo

i am sorry you went through that   no one deserves any kind or form of abuse if you ever need to talk you can PM me

Mama, I am so sorry he actually hit you. If he has done this before like you said, I would definitely get out now. If he hits you, how much would it take before he hits one of your LO's? You need to think about you and your LO's safety and no woman/girl should ever be hit by a man. You do not have to be treated like that and definitely do not deserve it. Do you not have any family or friends that you could pack up and stay with just to get away from him?

Op, I am so sorry. You did not deserve that...and in front of the child? What a worthless excuse for a man he is.

The hell with his ass no one deserves that leave that house and take this video to the cops don't put up with that

Quoting £egendary £ex:" Wow, you're smurfing kidding me right now? Shut the smurf up."

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Zander's mommy*:</b>" not bashing you or anything, you dont deserve what happened, but it sounds like you should have just ... [snip!] ... because it will make them really want to do it. im sorry about what happened though, i hope everything gets figured out soon."</blockquote>



Seriously?!

Wow....

Also OP I would delete the message between you and the secrets account holder just incase he sees it and searches for the account.

Omg you need to leave ASAP!! No man would ever put their hands on me without gettin socked back . You gotta stand up for yourself or at least take care of yourself and get away from him.

Quoting *Zander's mommy*:" not bashing you or anything, you dont deserve what happened, but it sounds like you should have just ... [snip!] ... because it will make them really want to do it. im sorry about what happened though, i hope everything gets figured out soon."

I jokingly tell my co-workers to shoot me when we have a crazy day. Does that really make them wanna do it, since I'm giving them permission?

 

It reminds me of my x boyfriend but I soon put a stop to that can u get out of the relationship Hun I kno it's hard I put up with it for two yrs just cos I said things he didn't want to hear it