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Aww Hun it was probably what u wanted then but now ur feeling depressed from the Christmas comin up maybe u should go to doc and get anti depressants just for the time been Hun
I wish u look

You made the decision that you thought would be best at the time. Hang in there hun. *hugs* <3

Quoting gina buckley:" Aww Hun it was probably what u wanted then but now ur feeling depressed from the Christmas comin up maybe u should go to doc and get anti depressants just for the time been Hun I wish u look"

It's not a Christmas thing... I'm very anti- ho ho ho.
Anti- depressants isn't the answer to regret.. Thanks for the suggestion tho.

That's ok I have no other suggestions but to talk to a councillor Hun

I regret my abortion too but I stand strong in my reasoning for getting one. I know how much more difficult my life would be. I would not have my education or the family I have now. I think it's best to focus on the positives. It's okay to regret sometimes but also be thankful for what you do have. You made a carefully thought out decision at the time, trust that it's for the best.

I dont think your evil, I think you did what you thought was best for you and your family at the time. Dont beat yourself up over it. Your prolly regretting it the most now with christmas coming up and seeing all the other kids running around. It's completely normal to feel the way your feeling. Doesnt make you a evil person.

Quoting RonniG:" I regret my abortion too but I stand strong in my reasoning for getting one. I know how much more difficult ... [snip!] ... but also be thankful for what you do have. You made a carefully thought out decision at the time, trust that it's for the best."

I wouldn't have my education either if I didn't do it, but I dunno...  

Regretting an irreversible decision can be very painful, especially one of this nature. Im sorry you aren't surrounded by those who are more empathetic as to how you are feeling. I have an exercise that I can reccomend you do if you would be willing to try it.


Write all of these engative emotions on a piece of paper. Write any thought that goes through your head that makes you feel upset. Then burn the paper (in a safe area, like a sink or bathtub). And while its burning I want you to visualize each emotion burning and turning to ash.

Well then you are a smart, strong, beautiful woman. We all make decisions every day that could change our lives forever. Trust yourself. Trust that things are as they should be. I know that "what if" feeling. But know that what you have now is so amazing and it wouldn't be as it is if you hadn't made the decision that you made.

Quoting That Black Kid™:" Regretting an irreversible decision can be very painful, especially one of this nature. Im sorry you ... [snip!] ... a safe area, like a sink or bathtub). And while its burning I want you to visualize each emotion burning and turning to ash."

I will have to try that, thanks.

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