Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ナdeℓis ϟ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... all he wants. My daughter isn't safe in her care. I know this for a fact. If the court does or not that's what I'm afraid of."
Do what you have to do in the best interest of your child.
People are too quick to judge, too quick to call someone a "bitter bitch", when they don't even know the whole story.
Hopefully his true colors show in the court and you never have to worry about your child's safety with him.
Don't worry about how prepared he is or isn't, just make sure that you are as prepared as possible.