I'm having a heart attack....

It's December and I'm due in March. Which means I only have three months left until I'm going to have two kids on my own and I'm freaking the smurf out....

I'm a pro handling one, but how am I supposed to do this alone with two??

for me two kids wasnt that difficult. I feel like having one toddler while the other was a newborn was so much easier than having both of them has toddlers... got to look at the brighter side of things. i am pretty sure you have a wonderful support system such as family and friends

How old is ur 1st child?

<blockquote><b>Quoting MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD):</b>" How old is ur 1st child?"</blockquote>




He will be three in March

<blockquote><b>Quoting diiamondchula:</b>" for me two kids wasnt that difficult. I feel like having one toddler while the other was a newborn was ... [snip!] ... got to look at the brighter side of things. i am pretty sure you have a wonderful support system such as family and friends"</blockquote>




No support system :/

<blockquote><b>Quoting .BAM bitch.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD):</b>" How old is ur 1st child?"</blockquote> He will be three in March"</blockquote>




I think ull be ok... my kids r 20mo nd 2days apart and it was easy until my son got older and they started fighting...

not even friends ?? maybe try going to some support groups?? their are alot of programs out their to support you as well as help you find other people just like you in the same perdicament.

<blockquote><b>Quoting .BAM bitch.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting diiamondchula:</b>" for me two kids wasnt that difficult. I ... [snip!] ... i am pretty sure you have a wonderful support system such as family and friends"</blockquote> No support system :/"</blockquote>



Family?

<blockquote><b>Quoting MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting .BAM bitch.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting diiamondchula:</b>" ... [snip!] ... wonderful support system such as family and friends"</blockquote> No support system :/"</blockquote> Family?"</blockquote>




No, there's a reason we live on the other end of the state. I've been on my own since I was 17

<blockquote><b>Quoting .BAM bitch.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Family?"</blockquote> No, there's a reason we live on the other end of the state. I've been on my own since I was 17"</blockquote>




Ooh my... :-( Im sry

try looking up support groups... i know it sounds cheesy, but they really do work!

I'm sure you'll do amazing. You've come so far in your life that having another child will probably come so naturally to you...and what happened to your SO?...

Quoting diiamondchula:" for me two kids wasnt that difficult. I feel like having one toddler while the other was a newborn was ... [snip!] ... got to look at the brighter side of things. i am pretty sure you have a wonderful support system such as family and friends"

I agree w/ this!!!

Mine are 21 months apart. (i was not a single parent but SO works shift work and was not home to help, ALOT of the time) Theyre now 2 & 4 and its hell. I loved the beginning when my little one was under a year. lol

My sons are 18 months apart and ive been a single mom since i was 6 months pregnant with my 2nd. I was so scared at first cause i didnt know how to handle two kids under the age of 2. The first few weeks are the hardest but then you start to get into a routine and it starts to get easier. The best of luck to you and you will do fine just take it one day at a time