re: OFFICIAL JULY 2013 THREAD (pt. 2)

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" Its alright. Ill get over it. Just stressing myself even more than i need to be. He said he isnt "giving ... [snip!] ... and said okay thts all i wanted and hung up.. Cool. And he is about to go 22 stories up on a scaffold to fix some windows."

I'm sorry lady. Sounds like he has some things going on. You work so hard to take care of your kiddos, yes he works as well but you have your kiddos to think of right now. PLUS the baby in your belly needs a calm mama. Maybe he needs some time to think? Maybe hes stressed out about life/money/kids/everything? My SO goes through days to where he takes out ALL of his frustrations out on me..Its very very stressful and hurts...Granted he never swears or calls names but the thing is...WE are with them/married/in relationships with them...And we are the ones the come back on.
Ask him what his deal is..Ask him if there is something he needs to figure out because this is so unhealthy for your kids and your growing baby..He needs to figure his smurf out because you seem like an awesome lady/mom/wife.. Im sorry hes being a jerk. Hugs to you

I<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" Its alright. Ill get over it. Just stressing myself even more than i need to be. He said he isnt "giving ... [snip!] ... and said okay thts all i wanted and hung up.. Cool. And he is about to go 22 stories up on a scaffold to fix some windows."</blockquote>




I stayed in a relationship like that with my ex husband until he left. Don't do that to yourself. After he left I realized what happiness was. I was so worried for my daughter but honestly it was the best thing I ever did for her. It will be hard but not as hard as you think I realized. I now have an AMAZING man who is more than I could ever have asked for and loves my child as his own. You deserve that too.

Tomorrow.
Tomorrow!
I find out the gender tomorrow!
(Sung to the tune from Annie)

I am so excited!

Last night my daughter had a bad dream at 1:30 am. It woke me completely up and I am struggling to function today as I was up almost all night. Yuck. And I probably won't sleep tonight because I am like a kid before Christmas with this ultrasound! Haha. Cross your fingers they show their goods! Hehe

Quoting ♥Jessie♥:" Tomorrow. Tomorrow! I find out the gender tomorrow! (Sung to the tune from Annie) I am so excited! ... [snip!] ... tonight because I am like a kid before Christmas with this ultrasound! Haha. Cross your fingers they show their goods! Hehe"

yay!! cant wait to hear what it is! Im going to guess girl.
I have my u/s on friday, but im not finding out, but still super excited to see baby and not just a blob haha

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" Its alright. Ill get over it. Just stressing myself even more than i need to be. He said he isnt "giving ... [snip!] ... and said okay thts all i wanted and hung up.. Cool. And he is about to go 22 stories up on a scaffold to fix some windows."</blockquote>




I'm sorry   you shouldn't be treated that way! Maybe he's going through something and instead of talking about what's bothering him he just blows up. Which isn't the best way handle whatever problems he's having. Do what's best for yourself, kids and the baby growing!

Phuket~ I am so sorry you are going through this. I have no advice, just sympathy. Wishing you the best in whatever you decide.


Jessie~ Cant wait to hear what you are having! My guess is Boy  

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(20 weeks):</b>" yay!! cant wait to hear what it is! Im going to guess girl. I have my u/s on friday, but im not finding out, but still super excited to see baby and not just a blob haha"</blockquote>


Seeing an actual baby is definitely half the fun!

I kinda think girl too but I was so wrong with my daughter I second guess myself all the time.

I can't wait for the birth of yours! I kind of think it will be your third girl.   My husband and I plan on having a surprise for our third child as well.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Jessie♥:</b>" I<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" Its alright. Ill get over it. Just stressing ... [snip!] ... I now have an AMAZING man who is more than I could ever have asked for and loves my child as his own. You deserve that too."</blockquote>




I literally only make 900 dollars a month at the moment, and no where to go. No family that can help me. So if i left idk where idgo and howd i get there. I got 100 dollars to my name right now. And with 4 kids, no one would be crqzy enough to get into a relationship with me. Id alone for a long long time..


I dont want things to end. I want things to be like they used to too, when i know he loved me. When he would write me silly cute poems and leave sticky notes all over for me to find with cute stuff on it, and he usedto actually KISS me. We havent like "made out" in probaboy a couple years.. Idk what happened. Once i got pregnant with Emmalynn he changed. He stopped having sex with me, looked at porn all the time. Went out with friends. After she was born he didnt help me at all, i did it all alone, if i dare ask him to cha ge a diaper or make a bottle he huffed and puffed.

He helps now with the kids all the time, and helps with house work..i just wish he was there for me more emotionally. Icant even tell him how i really feel half the time, i yelled at him this morning telling him i dont love him anymore. And whenever i say im lying   but its vuz its true, i mean i love him. But im not in love with him. He is just a person i live with. We havent slept in the same bed in awhile now..we hardly speak to each other when he is here. He should just go back working out of town.. Him being back in town has made things worse i feel like.


And now im pregnant... Lts add one more person into our smurfed up family. *eye roll*

Anyone else taking Zantac? I take 150 mg twice a day and STILL have to take a tums at night. I really like spicy food, but have cut it out to once a week and am still having issues. Should I ask my OB to up the dose or something? I feel like Im already taking so much, I dont want to take more  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Jessie♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(20 weeks):</b>" yay!! cant wait to hear what it is! ... [snip!] ... yours! I kind of think it will be your third girl.   My husband and I plan on having a surprise for our third child as well."</blockquote>



Imgonna guess girl   2 girls was really fun.

Quoting ♥Jessie♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(20 weeks):</b>" yay!! cant wait to hear what it is! ... [snip!] ... yours! I kind of think it will be your third girl.   My husband and I plan on having a surprise for our third child as well."

haha yeah i kinda think im gunna end up with 3 girls too. My poor husband. Just wasnt in our cards to have a boy. Everyone said boy with my last pregnancy and it was a girl...everyone is saying boy this time too...they keep jinxing me!

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(20 weeks):</b>" haha yeah i kinda think im gunna end up with 3 girls too. My poor husband. Just wasnt in our cards to ... [snip!] ... boy. Everyone said boy with my last pregnancy and it was a girl...everyone is saying boy this time too...they keep jinxing me!"</blockquote>




Im proof a boy can happen after 2girls!!

Quoting ♥Jessie♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(20 weeks):</b>" yay!! cant wait to hear what it is! ... [snip!] ... yours! I kind of think it will be your third girl.   My husband and I plan on having a surprise for our third child as well."

oh and i def recommend the surprise. Our last was a surprise too, and if we had anymore they would be surprises as well  

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(20 weeks):</b>" haha yeah i kinda think im gunna ... [snip!] ... is saying boy this time too...they keep jinxing me!"</blockquote> Im proof a boy can happen after 2girls!!"

lol, oh i know it can happen. I just have a funny feeling. Acutally sometimes i think it may be a boy. but ive just made myself believe its a girl so much that maybe it wont be hahaha

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(20 weeks):</b>" lol, oh i know it can happen. I just have a funny feeling. Acutally sometimes i think it may be a boy. but ive just made myself believe its a girl so much that maybe it wont be hahaha"</blockquote>




This is exactly what i was like last pregnancy. Figured id never have a boy so it was deff a girl! But dee deep down i think i knew it was a boy.