re: OFFICIAL JULY 2013 THREAD (pt. 2)

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Mega Mom*:</b>" I feel like I am a horrible person. I'm having a meltdown because I wanted a girl. So I am disappointed, ... [snip!] ... for being disappointed and feel like I should be happy baby is healthy. I seriously just feel like pure smurf right now. :'("</blockquote>

Im so sorry   you're not a bad person though. I'm sure that once he gets here you will love him just as much as you would've loved a little girl. He's still yours, and he was still made with love, and that's what should matter.

Quoting *Mega Mom*:" I feel like I am a horrible person. I'm having a meltdown because I wanted a girl. So I am disappointed, ... [snip!] ... for being disappointed and feel like I should be happy baby is healthy. I seriously just feel like pure smurf right now. :'("

Im sorry you are disappointed. Of course you are NOT a horrible person. This exact thing happened to me in my last pregnancy. I thought for sure it was a girl, had dreams about it and everything. After I found out he was a boy it took me a little time to get over it.. He is 16 months old now and my baby boy Daxx is the sweetest, most loving little boy and I wouldnt trade him for anything.    

Well ladies I just want to say that I absolutely love feeling my baby move around all day. It's such an awesome feeling and it has made me pretty emotional today lol.

Thank you to all the ladies showing support. I guess I'm just upset because I'm afraid I can't live another little boy like I love my son. I don't want to be one of those parents who has a favorite. Part of it is that I want a mini me, but I guess that's not meant to happen.

Quoting *Lindsey*(19 weeks):" Shes a tad bigger. But shes also 34 weeks! LOL"

Oh geez lol You both look great  

Quoting lauren ♥ 20 weeks:" No, but I'm going to order something for this baby  "

Me neither but want to order some of those cute newborn hats  

Quoting *Mega Mom*:" I feel like I am a horrible person. I'm having a meltdown because I wanted a girl. So I am disappointed, ... [snip!] ... for being disappointed and feel like I should be happy baby is healthy. I seriously just feel like pure smurf right now. :'("

You are not a horrible person! You had hopes nothing wrong with that. I want a girl too and I know if its another boy I will be a little disappointed too! You are meant to raise some good men  

Quoting *Lindsey*(19 weeks):" My most recent bump pic is of me and my sil and bff. We did them just for fun   " /> " /> " />"

Those are so cute!  

So I prepped the rest of my diapers but I've noticed most of them are on the verge of not fitting DD, so I kind of broke down and bought some fuzzibunz size large seconds. If she stays in diapers for 4 more months they will be well worth the money, plus she loves the cloth. She cries now when I put a disposable on her. lol. I had to use the sprayer for the first time today and it wasn't as traumatic as I thought it would be, so everything seems good. For those who asked about the other diaper it was a pocket with a microfiber insert. Hopefully I have fixed the issue with it now.

So how are all of you ladies feeling physically? I am feeling pretty good (feeling baby move lots more!) but am noticing a weight shift in the pelvic area. I feel like I'm waddling already! My belly has expanded like crazy the last week or so. I got my maternity pants and I thought I was subconsciously poking my belly out because of them, so today in the bathroom I stood up really straight and tried to suck in. Nope. All baby, apparently. Crazy how fast it just pops up there!

Emotionally I am still a train wreck. DH accidentally swatted me in the mouth earlier... I knew it was an accident - he would never hit me on purpose- but I cried for like an hour.   He felt so bad and that made me feel worse. Ugh. It didn't help that I was already pretty upset; A couple I went to high school with has been TTC for quite a while and recently they found out they were expecting identical twins. Well, yesterday they went in for their second prenatal visit and found out they lost both of them.   I don't even know them that well, but I am heartbroken for them - they are the sweetest people ever.

Sorry this was so long, just wanted to catch up! Hope everyone is doing well!

Quoting *Mega Mom*:" I feel like I am a horrible person. I'm having a meltdown because I wanted a girl. So I am disappointed, ... [snip!] ... for being disappointed and feel like I should be happy baby is healthy. I seriously just feel like pure smurf right now. :'("

Totally normal to feel like that,,,I am the opposite though,,I have a one yr old girl ad was now hoping for a boy but I am expecting another girl,,,confirmed and reconfirmed,,I was dissappointed as well but now I am happy my 2girls will grow up as bfs   and later perhaps I can try fr a boy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom2 a princess & 1 on th:</b>" Totally normal to feel like that,,,I am the opposite though,,I have a one yr old girl ad was now hoping ... [snip!] ... was dissappointed as well but now I am happy my 2girls will grow up as bfs   and later perhaps I can try fr a boy."</blockquote>


DH wants to try for a girl right away. Apparently he's been reading up on how to sway smh. Part of my worry is that the female is my family loose fertility at a really early age. My mom, aunt, grandma and great grandma all had hysterectomies by 30 due to hemreaging after a birth or miscarriage. DH and I want LOTS of kids, and we want the while we are young, but there is no guarantee I will maintain my fertility after each child. So theoretically, this could be my last. That saddens me. I don't know if I could even get pregnant while ebf... I know some women just can't. Ugh. Just a bunch of stuff I shouldn't be worried about

Hey all im gonna leqve Bg for a while , let me know if you want my FB if you dont already have it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" Hey all im gonna leqve Bg for a while , let me know if you want my FB if you dont already have it."</blockquote>


WHAT! I mean.. I'll stalk your fb, but... Why?

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" Hey all im gonna leqve Bg for a while , let me know if you want my FB if you dont already have it."

why you leaving??
if it has anything to do with drama on here you should just ignore it and not post in anymore threads and just stick with this one. I rarely comment in other ones. unless i know the person who posted it. People like to jump your throat for every little thing on here.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(19 weeks):</b>" why you leaving?? if it has anything to do with drama on here you should just ignore it and not post ... [snip!] ... comment in other ones. unless i know the person who posted it. People like to jump your throat for every little thing on here. "</blockquote>




Yeah this is pretty much why. Its rather annoying. And there is like a small gang of BG whores that take everything i say and twist it around. For instance my last thread.


Its just stupid. Everyone i like and talk to on BG is on FB anyway. Why are girls to freaking caddy? Is annoying as hell