Quoting Chelsea.:" I am feeling a little better today... I know my babies need me and I will be here for them til the ends ... [snip!] ... til the ends of the earth. As for my SO, we'll see where we get but I wont give up just yet. Thank you all for the support"
I was not sur ewhat to say as I dont' knwo you very well - but what you wrote MANY women could writ eat various point s in being postpartum when they ar ehavin ga tough moment.
I hope all is well. Keep trying to tealk to him & be VERY specific about what you need. Men do NOT generlaly take hints - they need big huge billboards.
What ahs worked best for Dh & I is for me to writ eit out.
So I literally say oin a note:
Today I need you to run to the grocery store - the list is on the counter.
I need you to take DS#1 out of the house ot get fresh air & play.
I need you to do a load of clothes fo rme & baby - and put them in the drier too.
And so on. If I write it out like that - I DO get him to do things most times with no cmplaint. It really IS why women made "honey do" lists & as corny as they sound they became so well known because they WORK.
Hope things are easing up & you are getting some sleep - I hope EVERYONE in your house is.