Quoting A&J. ♥:" What would it look like? Forget about money, just say your SO knew exactly the ring to get for you no ... [snip!] ... I love vintage/antique rings. I just love how unique they are"
I hate big, flashy rings and diamonds. I seriously hate them.
I'd use my wedding grandmas ring which has a HUGE diamond, and is the only flashy ring Id use. I wear her engagement ring now, I want to save the wedding ring for engagement or my wedding. I have another ring of hers I wear with an emerald and diamonds.
But if I were to marry my now ex SO (God i hope we work it out) I'd get one of those "Mothers" rings. I'd get one with 4 gemstones with the birthstones of me, my daughter, Tony, and his son. Then put our names around on one of those bands that looks like 2 rings making an X. A family ring to show us being united