Quoting ℐ+ℳ=£:" Oh wow, I'm sorry you went through that... I don't think what SO has is an addiction, but my ex did, ... [snip!] ... through his issues I hope mine does the same with the lying I think he will, he does try, he just slips up sometimes.."
Yeah it's hard for guys. It's accepted in society mostly now so that's a big part of it.
Here is a Bible verse that also is helpful (idk if you are religious or not)
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. - Matthew 5:28
To find someone attractive is not a sin, God made beautiful people in the world. To lust after others in a sexual way IS a sin. God made sex to be something special, a gift.