re: Thinking abortion....

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" She DID NOT ask if she was or not. ... [snip!] ... Why are you making this into a debate? Nobody is perfect and people make mistakes yes even on forums."

Oh good lord! Just stop. You have completely ruined this poor woman post.


OP good luck on what ever you decide. I delt with HG with my last pregnancy and ended up spending most of the pregnancy in the hospital. I can completely understand why you are feeling this way.
And you said there are other reasons too?
this is YOUR choice. Do what is best for you and your family. Good luck hun. I hope everything works out for the best.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Rudeness isn't a mistake  "</blockquote>




Whatever. Call it what you want and if modding me makes you feel better then thats good. How much are you getting paid to do so? Smh Have a nice day!

Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" "I don't know if I'm being irrational and just fed up because I'm only 8 weeks and all these problems came at me so fast an harsh." Show me WHERE op asked if she was being irrational please."

Saying 'I don't know if I'm being irrational or not' is pretty much asking for people's opinions. Regardless of how protected this forum is. That's just plain stupid. It's not like she said 'No, don't kill your baby just because your sick!' (That is NOT my opinion, I am pro-choice.)

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Rudeness isn't a mistake  "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... you want and if modding me makes you feel better then thats good. How much are you getting paid to do so? Smh Have a nice day!"

Sweetie, I didn't mod you, someone else did lol
So i'm not the only one who thinks you were being a rude bitch.

<blockquote><b>Quoting lauren [+2] TTC#3:</b>" Saying 'I don't know if I'm being irrational or not' is pretty much asking for people's opinions. Regardless ... [snip!] ... stupid. It's not like she said 'No, don't kill your baby just because your sick!' (That is NOT my opinion, I am pro-choice.)"</blockquote>



Thanks hun at least someone understands.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Sweetie, I didn't mod you, someone else did lol So i'm not the only one who thinks you were being a rude bitch."</blockquote>




Are you sure about that? You seem to be the instigator in all of this. But you know what ill stop. Is not even worth it. Smh. Toodles*

Absolutely no judgement here, I just want you to think of this from all angles. If you don't want the baby you should absolutely get an abortion and never look back.

But if you are just tired of the pregnancy I don't think you should do it. Pregnancy changes everyday! And I'm sure you know from having your first, as soon as the pregnancy ends you forget how bad it is! If you get an abortion I fear that you will think that you made a hasty decision and it wasn't really that bad, because everything seems not as bad when it's over.

That's just my two cents though, I am all for you doing what you feel you need to do, but you do need to be careful and think hard about it.

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Sweetie, I didn't mod you, someone ... [snip!] ... sure about that? You seem to be the instigator in all of this. But you know what ill stop. Is not even worth it. Smh. Toodles*"

No, someone else modded you.

Take it out of AS before you get modded again!     

That's how I felt with this pregnancy I couldn't keep anything down i had no one to watch my daughter the site of food set me off and I had to cook for her it was terrible. I spent my days vomiting when I hadn't eaten a thing I felt like I was seriously dead I wanted to get an abortion because how could someone live like this but by the time I was able to get out of bed I was 10 weeks and couldn't imagine doing it. I totally feel you're pain it didn't go away until 18 weeks.

I had severe Hyperemesis this pregnancy, so I know what you're going through. Only you can make this choice, and you're not the first one to feel this way. Many mothers contemplate abortion because of the extreme suffering you go through. If you want more children, do know that it is most likely to return during your next pregnancy and can even be worse than before. There are tons of support groups for what you are going through. I wish you the best and I am so sorry you're going through this, it is so awful.

I agree with some of the other ladies that if you feel that's what's best, then that's what you should do.
I empathize with you, I'm currently 16 weeks and have been sick since about 6.
I am taking Zofran, Zantac, and bino which helps with the nausea and gas a lot.
Just think through the pros and cons, and go from there. Good luck momma.

Quoting Kristenelizabeth55:" I had severe Hyperemesis this pregnancy, so I know what you're going through. Only you can make this ... [snip!] ... support groups for what you are going through. I wish you the best and I am so sorry you're going through this, it is so awful."

Do you have a link for any of those support groups?

Quoting Two Princesses:" Do you have a link for any of those support groups?"

There is one on here that is really nice to talk in. I haven't been on it in over a year though so I don't know if it's still going. Let me see if I can find it.

Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" There is one on here that is really nice to talk in. I haven't been on it in over a year though so I don't know if it's still going. Let me see if I can find it."

That would be awesome. Thank you.

Quoting Two Princesses:" Do you have a link for any of those support groups?"

Here you go hun, I hope it helps <3. I also included posts from other women suffering from Hyperemesis as well.

http://www.helpher.org/mothers/get-support/support-groups.php
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a29874887/hyperemesis_gravidarium_support_group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/147875378679190/?ref=ts&fref=ts
http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Have-Hyperemesis-Gravidarum/98333
http://mamalady.wordpress.com/2012/05/15/today-hyperemesis-gravidarum-awareness-day-no-more-babies-for-me/