More than 1 special needs child
posted 1st Dec
Starting to feel like I shouldn't have had my babies. Both of them have bad medical issues and I feel like it must have been from me. DH has 2 other perfectly healthy kids. I just feel like its all my fault. Their daily struggles are hitting me hard. Not being able to be a SAHM hurts even worse like I caused this but can't even be there for them full time. Sorry having a bad day. Any other SN mommies go through this?
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I'm so sorry sweetie it is hard to have special needs babies. Don't blame yourself mama. Kids are still kids no matter what ability levels they have and they still need your love. Don't ever regret them. They have a propose on this earth. *hugs* I wish I had a magic cure to fix it all for you mama
quoteposted 1st Dec
Quoting lolajessup:" I'm so sorry sweetie it is hard to have special needs babies. Don't blame yourself mama. Kids are ... [snip!] ... love. Don't ever regret them. They have a propose on this earth. *hugs* I wish I had a magic cure to fix it all for you mama "
I don't regret them just feel like I messed them up. I feel so bad for them
posted 1st Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting *Mommy for life*:</b>" "</blockquote>
It's not your fault mama. I know it's hard. But don't blame yourself. All you can do is be the best mama you can and advocate for them
quoteposted 1st Dec
I blame myself for DD's issues even though I know that they're likely not my "fault". But I'm terrified this baby'll have health issues too and its been very hard to be excited this time around
quoteposted 1st Dec
Quoting charlie waffles:" I blame myself for DD's issues even though I know that they're likely not my "fault". But I'm terrified this baby'll have health issues too and its been very hard to be excited this time around "
I was terrified al of DD pregnancy. Especially because she had seizures in the womb. After she was born they stopped until last month. Now they are back with a vengeance
posted 1st Dec
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DD had seizures and a birth defect. We had no idea prior to her birth. This time around we'll at least know if there are any physical defects...but not until Jan 9 which seems like forever...
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