re: i need done supportive friends on here. :) & important advic

Quoting bia.:" I never would have guessed you were a teen mother...good for you!  "

Definitely wasn't planned, lol. I was headed down a dark path and instead of the pregnancy making it worse, it completely turned me around. I owe my life to DD, literally.

Thank you  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Welcome to BG.   I had my daughter at 14. Finished high school early, going to college and have my ... [snip!] ... then you shouldn't be in that environment and neither should your baby. I hope he realizes that he needs to get help."</blockquote>



I didn't know you were a teen mom!

I wish you good luck.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Definitely wasn't planned, lol. I was headed down a dark path and instead of the pregnancy making it worse, it completely turned me around. I owe my life to DD, literally. Thank you  "</blockquote>




Exactly the same with my DD. I'd probably be dead by now if i never had her.


I was 19 though.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Definitely wasn't planned, lol. ... [snip!] ... you  "</blockquote> Exactly the same with my DD. I'd probably be dead by now if i never had her. I was 19 though."</blockquote>


Same here I would be dead if it weren't for both of my daughters even though one isn't here on Earth anymore. I was 18 with A and 20 with L

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Yeah, I understand. Family support is ideal to have. Since it's not a good environment to be in with ... [snip!] ... family? If it's that bad that your dad has to go to rehab, I mean. I don't know how bad it is. Have you looked for a job?"</blockquote>

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Yeah, I understand. Family support is ideal to have. Since it's not a good environment to be in with ... [snip!] ... family? If it's that bad that your dad has to go to rehab, I mean. I don't know how bad it is. Have you looked for a job?"</blockquote>




in Florida you can get a job from 16+.
I'm just more worried about my school work than anything. My father means so much, but my baby doesn't need to be around that.
Its really hard, i try to tell him but i just can't. Christmas is coming soon, do maybe I'll tell him after the holidays.

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Yeah, I understand. Family support ... [snip!] ... Its really hard, i try to tell him but i just can't. Christmas is coming soon, do maybe I'll tell him after the holidays."</blockquote>



Na, I live in FL too and I've known of 14 yr olds working at Mcdonalds, Publix, Winn-Dixie. Certain hours a week and not during school hours. Not sure if it's changed recently though.

Good luck.

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Welcome to BG.   I had my daughter ... [snip!] ... should your baby. I hope he realizes that he needs to get help."</blockquote> I didn't know you were a teen mom!"</blockquote>



Yeah, not something I particularly broadcast due to the misconceptions that come along with the title lol.

But I wouldn't change it for anything.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Definitely wasn't planned, lol. ... [snip!] ... you  "</blockquote> Exactly the same with my DD. I'd probably be dead by now if i never had her. I was 19 though."</blockquote>


It scares me to wonder where I'd be had I not gotten pregnant when I did.. I wouldn't have accomplished nearly as much as I have.

I'd be long gone by now probably

Feel free to PM me anytime you need advice or someone to talk too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's ... [snip!] ... I particularly broadcast due to the misconceptions that come along with the title lol. But I wouldn't change it for anything."</blockquote>

You've come a long way

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhoenixLilith:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" Yeah, I understand. Family support ... [snip!] ... Its really hard, i try to tell him but i just can't. Christmas is coming soon, do maybe I'll tell him after the holidays."</blockquote>



You can also look into alternative schools for young mothers. They provide parenting classes, nursery service while your in class, counciling ect.... I went to one of these & if I didn't I probably wouldn't have. Graduated

you can message me anytime, my half sisters all had kids early so i know for a fact its possible , its hard but its possible. and you deffenatly shouldnt be around drinking and drugs just remember when your stressed your babys stressed. good luck sweetie.

I got pregnate with my LO when I was 16 i wasnt going to school, i was up to no good. Im 17 & my LO is now 6 months old, im going to school to get my high school diploma & I have a job as a in home care provider. ITS IS POSSIBLE!! I love my life, You have made mistakes but you are obviously learning from them. & are taking the responsablity for the actions you made. As long as you do the best thing for your baby & put your babys needs before your oun needs then you will be a good mom. Im here if you need someone to talk to, good luck mama. (: