Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" So there was this debate going on in Facebook and I just want to get your opinion. The way I see it, ... [snip!] ... to drink or do drugs at home rather than going out behind your back and doing them or do you feel that would be irresponsible?"
We drink and it's part of our family culture. When LO is older she will be allowed to have a little (1-2 oz) wine with weekend dinners when we are together. If friends are over, probably she will not be allowed unless the other parents are here, too and they are OK with their child having it.
As far as drugs go, NO. Hopefully, she will have a good head on her shoulders and not make bad decisions regarding drugs.