Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" Don't give her the chance. She doesn't get it yet and since you know it's not a game you need to make ... [snip!] ... of figuring stuff out and actually taking responsibility for things like that instead of having to be told multiple times. "
I try, it is just so frustrating. It's the second I get her out of her carseat she starts fighting me trying to get down and she pushes with all her might against me and kicks and hits. it's hard, she weighs 31 pounds and I am 9 months pregnant.. it's even more hard when I try to put her into a shopping cart so she can't run around.. she kicks and screams because she HATES carts.. and once the baby is born I won't be able to hold the baby carrier AND carry her inside the store..