Family

If you knew that your SO's family (parents mostly) did not like you would that make it harder on you to stay?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chiara Leigh:</b>" If you knew that your SO's family (parents mostly) did not like you would that make it harder on you to stay?"</blockquote>

I want to say no but BD's mom and I didn't get along. It causes us more stress and made it harder to want to be with him/easier to leave.

Stay where, with him, or with them? It wouldn't make me leave him, if they disliked or even hated me, but there's no way I'd live with them in that case, that would just be awkward.

Stay where? Do you live with them? Or do you mean stay with your SO? My in laws not liking me would never be the sole reason i would leave my SO, but if it was one of several factors I would wonder if this relationship was for me.

No, I have that issue with MIL and DH's grandparents....But it's okay because the feeling is mutual.

Stay with my SO. His parents hate me and are constantly bitching about me. He never sticks up for me either.

DH's family and I have gone through times where they were trying to convince him to leave me cause I told them they were pieces of smurf for barely talking to him while he was deployed  

I never thought about leaving just cause of them. I'm not with him for his family.

Quoting Chiara Leigh:" If you knew that your SO's family (parents mostly) did not like you would that make it harder on you to stay?"

No not really, I knew it from the get go but I didn't care and neither did he. It's funny how it works because now he doesn't talk to really any of them except two people (not cause of me!) and he's happier than he was. Stuff works out that way sometimes, but it depends on the situation, because he always defended me.

Quoting Chiara Leigh:" Stay with my SO. His parents hate me and are constantly bitching about me. He never sticks up for me either."

I don't really have this issue.
But he really should stick up for you. Idk if I could be with someone who did not stick up for me. If he's someone you can see yourself with in the future and you see marriage in your future... I would talk to him. Because if he's not going to stick up for you now, will he when/if you become his wife. His parents don't have to like you, but they need to know that HE is happy with you and that they need to respect that and stop talking bad about you. Esp if you have children one day with him (or if you do already) Kids pick up on that stuff.. and they should see their dad stick up for their mom, not let it pass.... It's not a good example. So really I would try to resolve this issue of him not sticking up for you esp if this is a serious relationship that you see going long term.