re: early miscarriage

Quoting Moses.:" With my first I didn't need a D&C, everything passed normally just fine. I guess I will schedule an ultrasound just to make sure. *hugs* I am sorry you went through that  "

Thanks. <3 I'm sorry you're going through this, I know it's hard.

I'm sorry  and I know those two words probably sound redundant but I don't k ow what else to say. With mine I was around 6 weeks and I have severe cramping and lots of bleeding. There was never a time where I thought "I just passed the baby" over all if physically hurt but emotionally it hurt way worse. I didn't have insurance at the time so I didn't go to the dr. And make sure I passed it all, looking back it might of been stupid not to go, but everything turned out fine.

Quoting Moses.:" When I had a sonogram last Friday they didn't see anything, not even a sac   So I guess that could ... [snip!] ...   So I guess that could be the difference? Last week they said they thought it was either an etopic or I was way too early. "

If it's ectopic, it will hurt like HELL!!! I was on chemo for mine, I was vomiting just from the pain, and that was after pain pills.

Quoting Moses.:" yeah I didn't have time for anything, I was asleep on the couch when I started bleeding, an entire couch ... [snip!] ... Should I go in to have a sonogram to make sure everything has passed? Last Friday there wasn't anything seen in my uterus."

My 2 My bleeding was not much different than a period and my PP bleeding. So it can be light with just clots.

I just had an early miscarriage. I passed clots the first week. They gave me cytotec to pass the rest. I bled a little bit, passed some more clots, and it took two weeks. I barely bled when passing the clots.

Im glad you asked this. I have no idea what is supposed to be happening right now. Im wondering if its all passed or not. Mine was spots Wed night and a little heavier Thurs morning. After my u/s it got to be like a heavy period the next two bathroom trips. Since then its barely on a pad and already turning brown. That just seems....not enough? I mean baby stopped growing around 5 weeks so obviously not much in there. I just have no idea what's normal. My midwife asked me to call her next week to see how I was. I guess I will see how it goes and ask if they think I should be checked to make sure it all passed.

Quoting ~Manda Panda +3 ~:" Im glad you asked this. I have no idea what is supposed to be happening right now. Im wondering if its ... [snip!] ... week to see how I was. I guess I will see how it goes and ask if they think I should be checked to make sure it all passed."

See I think that's the difference with mine and yours, there was at least SOMETHING seen, where as mine, there was nada, kwim? I am glad yours was fairly quickly, if we can see a silver lining in all of this   I have been spotting for a bit now, and bright red here and there. This whole waiting game has been absolute torture. Now that I have finally gotten most of it out, my body is starting to feel better. I hate this though   I just don't understand. Me, you and my cousin, we were all due within days of one another. It's just not fair   For me, emotionally, I was doing OK, until you. And then my cousin. And it's like I have become an emotional wreck since. I didn't even cry at all until yesterday.

Quoting Moses.:" See I think that's the difference with mine and yours, there was at least SOMETHING seen, where as mine, ... [snip!] ... until you. And then my cousin. And it's like I have become an emotional wreck since. I didn't even cry at all until yesterday."

That must be since we saw stuff. Im most afraid of it not all coming out and infection. I was just in such shock yesterday I didn't think to ask anything.
Im sorry I made you cry too   Ive not cried that hard since my dad died. I am glad your body is feeling better. So sorry about your cousin too.

I had a m/c at 5 weeks back in July. It was like a very heavy, painful period with lots of blood and cramping. I did pass some clots, but nothing that was noticeably larger or looked like it might have been the baby. I bled for about a week, and then it all went away like a normal period does. I never got seen for it (I didn't feel like I could emotionally handle anyone else knowing about it), so I just monitored my temperature and made sure there were no other signs of infection or excessive bleeding. I did continue taking my prenatals for the iron and vitamin c, along with tylenol when the cramps got bad. I took a pregnancy test after the bleeding stopped, and again one week later just to make sure they came out negative and so I'd know with certainty that it was all over. I read that you shouldn't use tampons for at least a month afterwards, but I ended up pregnant again before I got my next period.

Im sorry sweetie