re: monogamous vs. open

Quoting The Doctor:" Hell, I've only been in one-on-one monogamous realtionships, and still met some real smurfs along the way.  "

lol the only monogamous relationship that was serious that I had been in, was with the smurf I decided to have my first dd with. lol

Wouldnt change it for the world, but idk I like my open relationships better. lol its more exciting imo. lol

Quoting Fancy Asparagus Beef:" I hope my last post can answer your question, lol. I wasn't looking at the situation in the right way."

Ah, I gotcha.   So it's like a time thing?



Got me thinking. How many relationships start out as open, and then switch to monogamy, and the other way round? Hmm. That'd be interesting.

Quoting The Doctor:" Ah, I gotcha.   So it's like a time thing? Got me thinking. How many relationships start out as open, and then switch to monogamy, and the other way round? Hmm. That'd be interesting."

Yeah. Honestly, right now, hell NO would I be okay with any sort of third party being introduced to my marriage, lol. I'm only 19, still very emotionally immature, and we've only been married for 2 years in January.

But, in 10-20 years? I can't say indefinitely, but I would probably be more open to the idea. So, I can see why others would be.

Quoting Fancy Asparagus Beef:" Yeah. Honestly, right now, hell NO would I be okay with any sort of third party being introduced to my ... [snip!] ... in 10-20 years? I can't say indefinitely, but I would probably be more open to the idea. So, I can see why others would be. "

I have noticed it more common to happen with people who get married younger actually.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" I have noticed it more common to happen with people who get married younger actually."

I agree. Out of all my married friends. Actually I only know 2 couples that are married that are monogamous, the rest are not. And all of them got married 19 yrs or so of age. lol

I have never been married, and never will get married, its something I personally dont believe in. lol

I would like an open relationship, one day... maybe. We need to fix our marriage at the moment, so it's definitely not an option for us for the next couple of years.