re: would you?

Quoting Miss. Tiff:" I could never share dh."

TIFFANY?!!! Heyyyy! I know you!

Honestly are you smurfing surpised some people think its nasty? Seriously come the smurf on.

I personally do not give a smurf what people do behind closed doors but to act like your surprised people do not agree with it.... Is really dumb.

Because Im sure you do not go around parading that you have multiple partners? Am I right?

Quoting That Girl.:" Honestly are you smurfing surpised some people think its nasty? Seriously come the smurf on. I personally ... [snip!] ... agree with it.... Is really dumb. Because Im sure you do not go around parading that you have multiple partners? Am I right?"

If people ask I tell them. But I don't think most people just walk around randomly asking shouting out the amount of people they have smurfed.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" If people ask I tell them. But I don't think most people just walk around randomly asking shouting out the amount of people they have smurfed."

Is that something you get asked alot. I couldn't imagine asking such a question.. Lol

I'm seriously not trying to say its wrong, Im just being realistic. You can't act shocked when people have a negative idea, or response about it.

Quoting That Girl.:" Is that something you get asked alot. I couldn't imagine asking such a question.. Lol I'm seriously ... [snip!] ... trying to say its wrong, Im just being realistic. You can't act shocked when people have a negative idea, or response about it."

When I am talking with friends about sex, which is a normal topic among young-mid 20 year olds the fact is discussed from time to time yes. And yeah I would be shocked because I have not really seen much judging since I left high school. Amazes me adult women are so smurfing prudish about sex.

No. I don't like the idea of sharing my man or being shared.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" When I am talking with friends about sex, which is a normal topic among young-mid 20 year olds the fact ... [snip!] ... because I have not really seen much judging since I left high school. Amazes me adult women are so smurfing prudish about sex."

Well Im 23 and talk about sex with my girlfriends so I do understand that. But I guess because here where I live, either there are not many people who are in such a relationship, or they are very hush hush about it. I mean I know girls that sleep with more then one man, but are not in any type of relationship. KWIM?

Quoting October Rust:" No. I don't like the idea of sharing my man or being shared."

Me either. I'd be too jealous.

You'd have to have no jealousy issues, and be okay with your man touching another woman.

Quoting That Girl.:" Me either. I'd be too jealous. You'd have to have no jealousy issues, and be okay with your man touching another woman."

Yeah. I mean, I've met people who are swingers/in open relationships and that's cool for them, I don't have a problem with it, but it's just not something I would be comfortable doing.

People who sleep around are looked down upon, here. I personally don't like it either. But I'm not one to tell somebody how to live their life. If it makes them happy, great.

Quoting ~*Flibbertigibbet*~:" I had a HUGE post asking this same thing, but decided not to post it. If a couple is happy with a monogamous ... [snip!] ... questioning the strength of someone's relationship. The OP asked "Would you", she didn't ask for judgment of those who would."

Well put... 

Those are the only kind of relationships I have been in and am in. So yeah. I dont see a big deal with it at all. lol

Its not like its a 24/7 thing. lol just something to do. lol

Quoting crazy coupon lady:" Those are the only kind of relationships I have been in and am in. So yeah. I dont see a big deal with it at all. lol Its not like its a 24/7 thing. lol just something to do. lol"

We call it our winter sport. lol we're just to busy in the summer to deal with other people.

Quoting kitermom:" We call it our winter sport. lol we're just to busy in the summer to deal with other people. "

So yall get extra excited for the winter season lol, so do you have certain places to meet people or yall already know the couple you like and see them every winter?

Quoting Radame N Angela Robles:" So yall get extra excited for the winter season lol, so do you have certain places to meet people or yall already know the couple you like and see them every winter?"

Good question!.
I am curious too.
I have a lot of friends that have open relationships but I don't usually discuss their sex lives with them.