re: would you?

Quoting kitermom:" We're swingers. We enjoy it and have a very healthy happy relationship. We are both free of STD's and get tested regularly. It's not for everyone but it's for us. "

So your not married?

If you were married would you be a swinger?

<blockquote><b>Quoting kitermom:</b>" We're swingers. We enjoy it and have a very healthy happy relationship. We are both free of STD's and get tested regularly. It's not for everyone but it's for us. "</blockquote>




Is still very risky no matter how well you take care of yourself. Smurf happends you know. Gl hun.

Quoting That Girl.:" So your not married? If you were married would you be a swinger?"

No we're married. We have been for 5 years.

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kitermom:</b>" We're swingers. We enjoy it and have a very healthy ... [snip!] ... us. "</blockquote> Is still very risky no matter how well you take care of yourself. Smurf happends you know. Gl hun."

Swinger's actually have the lowest case of STDs because of the open communication and protection. Yes something could happen but with safety our chances are lower.
My sex life now is much safer than it was when I was single.

Quoting kitermom:" Swinger's actually have the lowest case of STDs because of the open communication and protection. Yes ... [snip!] ... something could happen but with safety our chances are lower. My sex life now is much safer than it was when I was single. "

So you use condoms?

Quoting That Girl.:" So you use condoms?"

Of course!

Quoting That Girl.:" So you use condoms?"

In fact anyone in the community that wants to go "bareback" will get a lot of backlash.

Like if someone suggested that we have sex just once with out a condom and they never do it with anyone else I wouldn't have sex with them even with a condom. Because if they would do it with me then they would with anyone else.

I think everyone has their own opinion. I personally would not be able to do that, and I know my SO feels the same. To say it is wrong or smurfed up for someone to be swingers...is wrong. As long as both people in the relationship are on the same page and agree then it's fine. To each their own.

I don't think I could ever allow for us to have sex with other people separately, but I'm more than okay with having threesomes with other women since I'm bisexual and he's never had a threesome and wants to.

I think it's kinda bullsmurf that some of you think you can judge someone else's relationship and call it "nasty" or "not a real relationship". Just because it doesn't fit into YOUR tiny bubble of what a relationship should be does not mean it is nasty or any less valid of a relationship than yours is.

Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" I don't think I could ever allow for us to have sex with other people separately, but I'm more than okay ... [snip!] ... YOUR tiny bubble of what a relationship should be does not mean it is nasty or any less valid of a relationship than yours is."

Everyones simply stating their opinion. That's it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting That Girl.:</b>" Everyones simply stating their opinion. That's it."</blockquote>
And she thinks thier opinion is bullsmurf. As do I!

i personally couldn't do it because i can't imagine my hubbys penis inside another woman .. i'd probably flip out half way threw lol

Quoting kitermom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting That Girl.:</b>" Everyones simply stating their opinion. That's it."</blockquote> And she thinks thier opinion is bullsmurf. As do I!"

Haha Okay. If everyone were to think the same one this world would be BORING.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" I think everyone has their own opinion. I personally would not be able to do that, and I know my SO feels ... [snip!] ... wrong. As long as both people in the relationship are on the same page and agree then it's fine. To each their own."</blockquote>




Exactly!

Quoting That Girl.:" Everyones simply stating their opinion. That's it."

The opinion of "that's not a real relationship" is simply wrong. Any relationship that is agreed upon and consensual is a real relationship. That's a fact, so the dissenting opinions are wrong.