I'm going to scream!

I swear to God my MIL is freaking needy and jealous and ugh getting my last good nerve! So, here's the story: Two weeks ago we (DH, me, MIL) were sitting at DH's great grandmother house and DH told his aunt and 2 older cousin that DS b'day party would be December 2nd at 2 but he didn't know the location yet (we were thinking bowling but opted out and doing a house party) and would email them on FB with the location. MIL was sitting right next to DH as he said this! Well, last week I made an event on FB and invited friends and some more family that we forgot to call. I also made an event on DH's FB and invited the people I didn't have on my friends list. Well, MIL gets huffy and puffy because no one told her that it was going to be at our house! Oh my flipping crap lady! I told SIL to call MIL and tell her it will be at my house but time never changed. SIL did. MIL calls my phone and says: why didn't you call me? My answer: your son or daughter was to let you know where the party was going to be held. You knew the time because DH said it when we were at Maws. Her next question: Why didn't you call my parents (dad and step mom) in Indiana? My answer: They're coming over on December 8th to your home since your dad is doing chemo I know it's closer of a drive to your home than mine and we're having a small cake and ice cream only and I've already told you this and them that over 3 weeks ago. You step mother wrote it on her calender before we left the last time we visit. Now, my MIL is saying we excluded her and that she isn't coming to DS party on Sunday! Really she is suppose to be an adult and keeps acting like a damn child! I mean MIL doesn't call us when changes happen to DH's grandmother in the hospital! We call her. She could of asked at any point when her and DH talked this week or last week. I'm about to call DH's grandparents in Indiana and just tell them we will come straight to their house because if MIL wants to act like a baby then fine she don't need to see my kids anymore especially if she's going to a baby over details of a b'day party.

TIA for listening to my rant

So.. she's not coming to the party because of that?
Why should little one have to miss out on her coming to his party because she decided to be childish? That's not fair at all. And really, it's not that deep. She's being just silly.

Quoting K. P. Walsh:" So.. she's not coming to the party because of that? Why should little one have to miss out on her coming ... [snip!] ... his party because she decided to be childish? That's not fair at all. And really, it's not that deep. She's being just silly. "

Right. Beats me everything that goes wrong she's the victim. SIL bought MIL a cat one time for her b'day cat tore up carpet SIL had to pay for the carpet replacement because SIL was the one who bought the cat. It's not fair and it is seriously pissing me the hell off. Oh and she called and asked if my oldest DD could stay the night but DH and I won't be able to get her on Sunday due to the party so she isn't going DD needs to be here for her brother's day.