Quoting Alex's Mommy 11/09:" Lol! I understand where your coming from! My SO is a great dad also just doesn't like doing any of the ... [snip!] ... smurf talking my SO which I love dearly and would never try to say anything incredibly rude about because I know he is trying :p"
I used to (still do on occassion) inspect LO's diaper after he had just changed it...I was caught in the act
That's when SO took a huge step back and wouldn't help out as much. He used to be super excited to help me bathe LO, pick out his outfits for the day, put him to sleep, he even tried to get me to introduce the bottle to him earlier so that he could take part in the feedings....as soon as he caught me "fixing" his diaper, all of that other stuff seemed to stop
I only have myself to blame...oh well...I was there when LO rolled over for the first time. I was the one that LO smiled at (the real smiles, not the gassy smiles) for the first time. I was the first one to hear that adorable giggle for the first time...so in the end, he's missing out on a bunch of stuff because of his "hissy fit"
Although, not being the only one doing his laundry all the time would be a nice change...lol