Quoting [Living Dead Girl]:" I want to save my marriage. But I can't get him to admit anything. He says there's no feelings, and I've ... [snip!] ... cheap counselling around our area, but until then this is still a problem. He swears up and down that there are no feelings."Then ask him why he's so touchy about you asking him a very simple favor. He shouldn't be getting upset over a simple request to stop talking to this woman. He should also recognize that no matter how you slice it, it's totally inappropriate for a married man to send 500+ text messages to another woman in just one month. There's no way around it... None. There is NO legitimate reason as to why he should be talking to her so much, *especially* when you've told him it makes you feel uncomfortable.
Quoting Raptor Jesus:" I hate to say it but there are many things wrong with this picture. First of all he should respect your ... [snip!] ... talking to this girl, and mover on with life. Obviously that's not the case though so there's more to this than meets the eye. "When I asked him why it's so important for him to be friends with her he said in his past he couldn't be friends with girls without his dick getting into the way, and now that he's married he doesn't have to worry about that. I'm just at a loss.
Quoting [Living Dead Girl]:" The question is.. should I be worried about HER? She says she told him deleting texts were wrong and ... [snip!] ... she was going to "back off" because she saw it was upsetting me. But there she was still texting and going to coffee with him"
Quoting October2011:" How did he explain the 500 texts?"I asked what they could possibly be texting about and he said "work related, and how each other is doing that day" but they were texting WHILE at work with each other. And they're barely 50 feet away from each other. And they have the EXACT same schedule.
Quoting Chuck Bass:" It doesn't matter if she's a slut or not, no girl ever MAKES a guy cheat. Not saying it's not both people's ... [snip!] ... makes that decision, that's on him, not her. Hold him responsible for his own actions. He is being shady, take it up with him. "
Quoting Raptor Jesus:" Then ask him why he's so touchy about you asking him a very simple favor. He shouldn't be getting upset ... [snip!] ... reason as to why he should be talking to her so much, *especially* when you've told him it makes you feel uncomfortable."I asked. He said because I was making him feel like a caged animal. The ONLY girl I made him stop talking to was one of his ex's. He's had female co workers before. Our age. He's helped her move and everything and not once did I ever worry. He claims he's friends with her because she's the only one his age. Which I doubt.