Quoting mommy-in-a-blended-family:" Dh and I just got off the bc pill - we are trying, but not making it stressful. I do OPK's just because ... [snip!] ... cycle isn't regular from being on the pill. But I want it to happen soon - I'm determined this is our month!! My DD is 2. "
At some point it does become stressful, like after the first 8 months when you've done the whole "I'm not going to try thing". I hope it works out for you that it doesn't get to that point but those words are non existant for me