re: Your SO is tampering with your BC....D/D

Wow, I'm suprised by the number of people who would be totally up for using abortion basically as birth control.

how does he get the pills out of the foil backing, without you seeing that they're already open..?

If I was done, I would have got my tubes done so in this case, I'd keep, because if I was on BC it'd mean I'd want more, eventually, or I was undecided but not totally done. But, that is if it was me. (I know tubals can fail, etc., but that's not really relevant to the question). And, I pretty much doubt I could abort. I'm all for it; but it's not something I think I could do personally.

But.. I'd be pissed. And wonder why he wouldn't just talk to me. We'd need some serious counselling before I would decide to stay.

Quoting khigh:" So, should a woman be charged with something for telling her SO that she is on birth control (and is not) and poking holes in the condom? It's the same exact thing."

yes. I said it's wrong for both men and women to do that.

Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:" Wow, I'm suprised by the number of people who would be totally up for using abortion basically as birth control."

how is having an abortion because someone tricked you, using it as birth control?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:</b>" Wow, I'm suprised by the number of people who would be totally up for using abortion basically as birth control."</blockquote>




Abortion controls if a birth happens so it is birth control whether anybody likes it or not

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" how does he get the pills out of the foil backing, without you seeing that they're already open..?"

Shh!

 

Quoting נєz:" If I was done, I would have got my tubes done so in this case, I'd keep, because if I was on BC it'd ... [snip!] ... I'd be pissed. And wonder why he wouldn't just talk to me. We'd need some serious counselling before I would decide to stay."

This is what I plan to do when i'm done having kids. Probably after the next one.

Quoting Back to Noob Status:" Random D/D Say YOU are finished with having children, at least temporarily, but your SO wasn't. Everything ... [snip!] ... or leave? Would you abort or keep? Should a man be charged for messing with his girlfriend's bc /poking holes in condoms? "

I would leave. I don't think they should be charged however. When you agree to have sex with someone you assume certain risks. One is the risk of pregnancy. Just like I don't think a woman should be able to be charged if she lies about BC or something.

well. . . now that I think about it. . . messing with someones medicine. . . it's a thin line but I still think he shouldn't be charged. I would leave though, in a heartbeat. It's taking away MY right.

I don't think I'd abort, but it would really depend on where my life was at that time.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:</b>" Wow, I'm suprised by the number of ... [snip!] ... control."</blockquote> Abortion controls if a birth happens so it is birth control whether anybody likes it or not"

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Faith ♥:</b>" I would leave his ass. For sure. But I would probably end up keeping the baby. Assuming that finances weren't the reason for holding off on another to begin with."</blockquote>


This

Quoting Elliot Reid:" I wouldnt leave, and id keep the baby, but id make him seek help because that is way beyond normal behaviour."

  Exactly what kind of sick person does that. I mean Is he the only planning on staying home with the baby once it is born. I would definitly be pissed that i found him switching out the pills but if i could afford another child i dont think i would make a big deal about it for a long time

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Just saying

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kati Iss Rollinn:</b>"  "</blockquote> Just saying"

It's true though.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" how does he get the pills out of the foil backing, without you seeing that they're already open..?"

My pills are in a case and i dont even look at the back on the when i am popping them out of the foil.