Quoting Emberly:" If it were me, I'd talk it over with DH, and have him tell them. I take the Dr. Phil approach and let ... [snip!] ... have to get used to it. Good luck with everything, though! I hope it can go smooth for you and not cause a bunch of problems!"
Thanks I have told them about it already, and they don't like it but I will tell them again and again before the baby comes, I will also be sure to wear this baby in a wrap so that they cannot just grab him out of my arms when we do decide to come around, they are going to have to ask and I will be putting my foot down with them and if that means having to be a real bitch about it then so be it, they are not just going to walk all over me like they did with my first and I've already made sure they know of this. None of them have said anything directly to me about it, but you can guarantee they are talking amongst themselves about my decision, and whatever that's fine because i'm the one giving birth not them. MIL says that she has been to the birth of every one of her grand babies and that was why I let her in the delivery room with the first because she cried. But she's just going to miss this one and not be able to see him until I say so and she can cry about it if she wants, i'm not feeling sorry for her this time after how she did the first time.
Are you seeing family care midwives on Patrick street? And yes, the same birthing center