Quoting 2Girls & Blessed:" i told him that because "I'm" the one that always suggest things to do for us he NEVER says hey lets ... [snip!] ... know i have to wait till all the bills are paid and then we will see.. and he never comes around to it.. so its like.. WTH??"
He may be serious about the bills/affording situation.
I wish my SO was that aware of money and how fast it spends >.>
Maybe inform him that Amazon.com has a Sexual Wellness department and let him look at your wishlist ;) Or try sexting rofl. Anything that will jumpstart him.