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Quoting ☮ Phuket:" I think he thinks its werid too, but we never say anything.. its just a peck.. BUT the thing that ... [snip!] ... few years so its not an issue anymore, but it was weird, and i know SO was not comfortable with it, but he never said anything."

With all of those things, I would definitely be turning my head when he comes in to make it clear I preferred to be kissed on the cheek.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" I think he thinks its werid too, but we never say anything.. its just a peck.. BUT the thing that ... [snip!] ... few years so its not an issue anymore, but it was weird, and i know SO was not comfortable with it, but he never said anything."

Holy Smurf. I don't know how you face him. My fil creeps me out but I make sure to not spend 1 on 1 time with him ever. And keep my distance cause hes a perve.

Quoting That Girl.:" Holy Smurf. I don't know how you face him. My fil creeps me out but I make sure to not spend 1 on 1 time with him ever. And keep my distance cause hes a perve."

we werent 1 on 1 when he said that, there was like 3 other neighborhood dudes in the garage at the moment..ive never been alone with that guy ever..thank god

Quoting bananapancakes:" Or is this some what creepy? DH and his mom are really close, they have a great relationship. The thing ... [snip!] ... or something she'll com up and hang on him or give him a hug. DH doesn't do that smurf to her, it's just smurfing weird to me."

Yeah, that is weird. My brother's mom is that way too (we have the same dad, different moms). She's ALWAYS talking about how good looking her son is and stuff like that, I mean I understand thinking your son is a handsome man or whatever, but the way she says it and how often she says it has always been creepy to me. Like, we were all looking at old pictures the last time I seen them which was a long time ago and she came across his prom pictures and was like 'God, is he not the best lookin' man you've ever seen Jessie?!' and I'm just over there thinking...'Uhm, no that's my brother.'   And she's all 'touchy feely' with him too. He's not even her only child, but he's the only one I've noticed her act that way towards.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" we werent 1 on 1 when he said that, there was like 3 other neighborhood dudes in the garage at the moment..ive never been alone with that guy ever..thank god"

I wasn't trying to imply you were. Lol I wish dh had family members who were smurfed up in the head. I have family thats smurfed up but luckily is isnt my mom or dad. I feel bad.

Quoting That Girl.:" I wasn't trying to imply you were. Lol I wish dh had family members who were smurfed up in the head. I have family thats smurfed up but luckily is isnt my mom or dad. I feel bad."

welll when this was all going down he was banging some chick and cheating on his wife... about year after this he left his wife of 30 years to be with someone, who was 30 years old. he seems happy now, and doesnt make perverted comments anymore. i think he was just drunk and trying to impress his buds or something, idk. it was awkward, but i lived the people, i knew how they were.

Quoting bananapancakes:" FIL left her for another woman 2 years ago, after that she got all smurfin weird. She was so pissed that ... [snip!] ... like I was taking away her little boy. At our wedding she was telling a bunch of people we wouldn't last 6 months  "

that sounds like my exs mom to the T. a smack up side the head and a fat dose of reality is ur best bet but idk if u wanna do that lol theres not really a way to do it without making a scene lol