re: babysitting

Quoting 3rdxsacharm:" Your so very welcome glad I could help!! I hope they are willing to work with you  "

haha i just sent it - and im so damn nervous ... like a little girl lol

Me too! For so many reasons! I want them to be involved in her life especially since her father is garbage and refuses to help bc he is sooo busy with his stupidity !

Let me know how you make out!!! I have an 11 year old who hasn't seen her biological father since she was 5 months and has never met anyone in his family..It's so sad! There loss if they choose not to!!! <3

Quoting 3rdxsacharm:" Let me know how you make out!!! I have an 11 year old who hasn't seen her biological father since she ... [snip!] ... father since she was 5 months and has never met anyone in his family..It's so sad! There loss if they choose not to!!! <3"

Well it went OKAY lol
I sent her that message and she said "Hey yeahh sure, just let us know when"

So not like super EXCITED about it lol but I guess its better then them saying NO lol. I guess I wont see how 'great' it is until we actually start the whole thing.

Quoting Miss Ashley +2:" Well it went OKAY lol I sent her that message and she said "Hey yeahh sure, just let us know when" ... [snip!] ... but I guess its better then them saying NO lol. I guess I wont see how 'great' it is until we actually start the whole thing. "

The hardest part is over and ...Well that's good!! At least now you know you can look into classes and discuss things with her more and you have that option. Hopefully communication will be a little more open on her side from here on out!

Quoting 3rdxsacharm:" The hardest part is over and ...Well that's good!! At least now you know you can look into classes and ... [snip!] ... things with her more and you have that option. Hopefully communication will be a little more open on her side from here on out!"

Yes hopefully. I don't want to be the one reaching out all the time =/ I am more excited about them watching her then me starting classes lol. And its not because i would want a break i just REALLY want them involved in her life.

Quoting Miss Ashley +2:" Yes hopefully. I don't want to be the one reaching out all the time =/ I am more excited about them ... [snip!] ... her then me starting classes lol. And its not because i would want a break i just REALLY want them involved in her life. "

I would hate to see you struggling to have her family in her life as well. Hopefully they will take some responsibility and love her and want to be near her. I know it's hard and you can't force it unfortunately!!

Quoting 3rdxsacharm:" I would hate to see you struggling to have her family in her life as well. Hopefully they will take ... [snip!] ... will take some responsibility and love her and want to be near her. I know it's hard and you can't force it unfortunately!!"

yeah, and its not like i want money or anything just emotional involvement!