Quoting Mama to William + 1:" Well if he went to the interviews and didn't get hired he can't do more than that unless he intentionally screwed them up."
Quoting xONikki:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):</b>" Okay but this isn't about whether ... [snip!] ... even want child support from his ass. I just don't want him being able to take our daughter to where he lives now.. /:<"
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Okay but this isn't about whether or not her kid needs her last name for insurance purposes. I think ... [snip!] ... years before they'd let me change his last name. :S It's easier to change it to your married name if you marry this dude later."
Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" There is absolutely nothing you can do about that. "
Quoting xONikki:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lotusmama:</b>" ---if you like it then you shoulda put a ring ... [snip!] ... for awhile. Yes I live with my parents, which he's also angry with me about not moving out to his friends house with him. -.-"
Quoting *Mommy for life*:"Its easy to change it here 95$. They post it in the paper, if noone contests it then it gets changed. If someone does you have to see a judge but he sides with custodial parent 95% of the time even if the father/mother is around. "
Quoting xONikki:" I just really was wanting to avoid a broken family... ): it seems like that's what it's boiling down ... [snip!] ... I should be happy and ready and now I'm scared to have her because everything is going to break out when she does make her way!"
Quoting xONikki:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:</b>" Fight harder then. This stuff isn't make ... [snip!] ... me going to college but Im planning to now and he got mad at me. He just seems so immature now and he's NEVER been this way."