Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:" That's great for you! It's a hard thing to swallow at first but I agree, much better off without them ... [snip!] ... parents have told me they want to be involved, however, they want it on their conditions...that doesn't really work for us."
His sister, and mother both said they wanted to be involved. His sister saw her at birth and his mother two weeks later. neither have seen her since...his sister contacts me asks whens a good time and then never replys his mom avoids me. Their loss not mine! Everybody wants me to drive to them (he lives with his mom an hour away from us) when I take care of her and pay for everything. His sister lives 5 mins away from me...its all good I get her to myself and I love that!