My baby's father is being really confusing should I stay wit

We've been together for awhile I've had a miscarriage before and I'm pregnant again I asked him if I could keep it this time and he got really upset with in the next few days and I suggested a break he agree'd to it and I haven't seen him that upset in a long time (btw we just got engaged) why is he mad at me? Or he was saying he couldn't provide for us yet maybe he's scared? Idk what's wrong but he's not talking to me at all any idea why?

I wouldn't be with anyone if i had to ask permission to keep MY child. It's a baby not a animal. Just saying.

Yea it is starting to sound kind of selfish

You shouldn't need to ask permission to keep it

If you want to keep it, then keep it, but be prepared to raise it on your own.

Quoting Dollface721:" Yea it is starting to sound kind of selfish"

It is hun. goodluck to you. Make the right decision for yourself.

Thank you both

I personally would say he was probably scared. My DH and I were married when i found out I was pregnant. He freaked out and didnt talk to me the whole night. It was so bad that I asked if this baby was going to ruin our relationship. I was scared, confused, and hurt just like you. The next day he came home from work huged, and kissed me. Said he was sorry and that with each passing day he would accept the baby and will eventually be happy for her before she arrives. He Accepted it and started getting excited after her ultrasound and seeing her. Now he lays every night and talks to my stomach and rubs it making her wiggle and move.

With all that being said. I would say keep your baby if that is what you wanted. He choice to have sex with you and not be protected. I would be prepared to take care of baby on your own. Give him some time. Keep him informed even if it doesnt seem like he wants to be. Give him any updates you have tell him all your appointments. And give it time pregnancy is long by the end he could come around.

Uhm you're 17.
Maybe he's being logical

age is nothing but a number.... Things happen and if you want to keep the baby go for it =) I had my first child @ 19 and I wouldnt change it for the world I love her more then life its self xoxo stay strong and know that YOU can do it! He will either come around and accept it or he wont but he is sounding selfish.

Quoting Faith (vagenius) ♥:" Uhm you're 17. Maybe he's being logical"

Umm pretty sure her being 17 has nothing to do with the fact at hand. They both choose to have sex, and to be engaged. Its not ok no matter what age for him to bail now and leave her like this. Being logical would making a responsible decision together about what is best for the baby. Being immature is him bailing on her and not talking to her.

Quoting Faith (vagenius) ♥:" Uhm you're 17. Maybe he's being logical"

Because leaving the girl you got pregnant or forcing her to get an abortion no matter what age,is so right. That makes alot of sense.

It sounds to me that while you may be ready to be a parent at 17, he isn't.
Does he even have his high school diploma yet? How can you expect him to "provide" for you when he most likely isn't even out of high school. Did he have plans to go to college? Did you ever discuss wanting a pregnancy with him? This is more than bringing a life into the world, you are also drastically changing the both of your lives forever. If he isn't ready you have a lot of work cut out for you if you decide to keep your child, but I don't think you should judge him too harshly for it, I think he is being logical as well.

I would say keep the baby and ditch the guy

Quoting Kati Iss Rollinn:" I wouldn't be with anyone if i had to ask permission to keep MY child. It's a baby not a animal. Just saying."

This!

Quoting KnittyBump:" It sounds to me that while you may be ready to be a parent at 17, he isn't. Does he even have his high ... [snip!] ... you decide to keep your child, but I don't think you should judge him too harshly for it, I think he is being logical as well. "

I can't see how he is being logical. Its not like he didnt have a choice on having sex. IT sounds like both them decided to have sex probably more than once. That means they are both responsibile. What if she had plans to finish school and go to college. The road goes both ways.