Quoting aperkins:" I can't see how he is being logical. Its not like he didnt have a choice on having sex. IT sounds like ... [snip!] ... once. That means they are both responsibile. What if she had plans to finish school and go to college. The road goes both ways."Exactly if a guy isn't ready to be a father then they need to keep that dick put up,until they are. It's his fault just as much.
Quoting Dollface721:" Yea I don't see what age has to do with this...I just needed advice about my fiancÚ when we talked about ... [snip!] ... and he has to provide for our family. I said I could do it by myself and I think he just got offended I don't really know?"give it some time like I did. he's probably nervous scared and upset by your response. I would try to contact him and clearify things.
Quoting KnittyBump:" Do you honestly believe that a 17 year old boy "made the decision" to have sex? "
Quoting KnittyBump:" Do you honestly believe that a 17 year old boy "made the decision" to have sex? Please, kids will be ... [snip!] ... is fantastic, but kids tend to fool themselves into thinking that their high school relationship is going to last forever. "
Quoting Kati Iss Rollinn:" Are you serious? Who else would make the decision? He is the owner of the dick that got her pregnant!"
Quoting aperkins:" Could he not use a condom. Did she force him to lay in the bed. I'm not say this young lady didnt have ... [snip!] ... lady didnt have a part in it and neither is she. I'm saying they both made a choice to have sex. And they both are responsible"
Quoting KnittyBump:" I agree, they are both responsible. But unfortunately only one person is truly stuck with the consequences. So I think that women have to be extra careful. "
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