Quoting |♥| Jayme |♥|:" I'm not going to shut the smurf up that smurf is smurfed up and is wrong. It is completely understandable for her to be ashamed but to play it off an an miscarriage. She wouldn't know how that feels."
I have miscarried, and still wouldn't be such an insensitive bitch. GTFO, this is abortion survivors, pro life people don't belong here in the first place. She is suffering a loss either way, you don't need to make her feel worse than she already does.
Sorry you are going through this mama, but as other ladies said, you need to tell your doctor so that he has the information he needs to help you. They deal with this kind of stuff all the time, and are not going to judge you.