re: post abortion complications help

Quoting emmamommy1986:" .and in no way meant to offend people who have miscarried. this was my 3rd pregnancy. my first i miscarried ... [snip!] ... a miscarriage feels like, heartbreaking. so i am only asking everyone to be nonjudgemental, i am already sick of my choice. "

Don't beat yourself up. If I ever get one, I will tell people it was a MC too, especially family if it leaks that I was pregnant. I don't blame you. But you do not need to feel ashamed in front of medical personnel, they are there for this specifically. They see it all the time. Don't feel like you are being judged. Your health is what is important.

Quoting emmamommy1986:" .and in no way meant to offend people who have miscarried. this was my 3rd pregnancy. my first i miscarried ... [snip!] ... a miscarriage feels like, heartbreaking. so i am only asking everyone to be nonjudgemental, i am already sick of my choice. "

you know what i am sorry for how i came about with my feelings, but it just hurt, it may not hurt others that have, but it hurt me and maybe i shouldn't have came off the way i did and i am sorry for it. I mean you got an abortion and you feel bad about and i am sorry you have to go through and i want you to see a doctor, but i acted without thinking and i shouldn't have, but i am sorry and like i said before hopeful you figure out what is going on...

thanks. my family knows the truth. i just couldnt bring myself to tell my dr, esp with an office full of pregnant women. but i will, and i need to.

and i have no idea what TDC is?

Quoting |♥| Jayme |♥|:" you know what i am sorry for how i came about with my feelings, but it just hurt, it may not hurt others ... [snip!] ... i acted without thinking and i shouldn't have, but i am sorry and like i said before hopeful you figure out what is going on..."

please just go away

Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:" please just go away "

Why?   she's saying sorry....

Please don't bring drama into this post and make it go to TDC. Then it won't be protected and OP probably will be ridiculed.    

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" Please don't bring drama into this post and make it go to TDC. Then it won't be protected and OP probably will be ridiculed.    "

what is TDC??

<blockquote><b>Quoting emmamommy1986:</b>" what is TDC??"</blockquote>



The Drama Corner. When a post has drama or too many hidden posts that is where it goes. It is not protected like this forum (abortion survivors). So anything goes there.

sweetie you needed to go to the follow up. if you took the first set of pills that ends your pregnancy, if you went to the follow up they would have given you the second set of pills to expel the products of conception. you must go back to check if there are retained products and have them removed if there are any coz they can cause infection which will lead to infertility or worse! a woman in Ireland lost her life recently due to not having retained products removed (they refused her treatment as abortion illegal there   so sad)
I know how hard it is going through abortion I've had 2 but please go to the clinic or go to ER and tell the truth. they won't judge, knowing the truth will help them to help you more quickly. good luck let us know you are ok! x