re: Would this make you uncomfortable?

Quoting .:Mary1987:.:" I should probably say that sometimes our son does go there, but I often would rather him not just because ... [snip!] ... having his own room (even though he rarely uses it now   ) So part of the reason why my son isnt there much is because of me."

look stop! he has a son and doesnt want to get a family home or an apartment that his kid and pretty much wife can live. he doesnt want his son there. jesus he is SmUrfING around on you and has no commitment to you

Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" maybe he doesnt get along with his parents bc they know he is stepping out on you. a big danger sign is him keeping you from 'family' things. inlaws tried to do that and guess what my so is with me. "

Oops I meant my parents. My parents have my key not his. My parents watch my son if I work during the day. Usually I dont but sometimes I get the day shifts and if they are on the weekdays then both of us are at work.

Quoting .:Mary1987:.:" Oops I meant my parents. My parents have my key not his. My parents watch my son if I work during the ... [snip!] ... during the day. Usually I dont but sometimes I get the day shifts and if they are on the weekdays then both of us are at work."

still he doesnt want to live with his family bc he doesnt like the baby sitters. its all bs

<blockquote><b>Quoting .:Mary1987:.:</b>" Ive never been to mexico, so I dont really know what its all about. I just know my friends who have ... [snip!] ... going? Why is my son not going? Why cant he go to the one in our country if its just the wedding part he wants to witness?"</blockquote>



So he can plan to go with his friends that include women, spend $2000 to go, decide at the last minute to make it a party drinking trip, and NOT include you or offer to take you?! HELL TO THE NO. That smurf would not be happening.

Uhh I get anxious and annoyed when my fiance just goes across the rosd to get drunk.. SmUrf Mexico!!!
No way in hell your boyfriend isn't going to be smurfing around on you while he's there.

I'd drop it, and let him go.
While he was gone, I'd change the locks and get a new phone number.

I would NOT be okaty with it, at all.

I would have assumed I'd be invited if I'd been with him for as long as you have-why didn't you ever ask him to clarify the invitation?

The whole thing sounds fishy.

Sorry dear, but this does have "foreign poon with no responsibilities" written all over it. And I think the worst part is you are making excuses for him.   He has no respect for you and your son, if I were you, I'd do everything I needed to while he's gone (move, change my number, change the locks, block him & his family off Facebook) and move on. He's living his life as single as possible until he has to play daddy and boyfriend, and you shouldn't be putting up with it.

You are making excuses for him. You are making it ok for him to go all the way to Mexico with his drinking buddies when he was supposed to be going with his son. He's going to have a room to himself for a week, he's not going to be talking to you at all during that week and you think he's not going to be cheating on you?

Hell, I straight away thought he was going to be cheating on you and since you won't be talking to him that week you have no way to prove it.

I would just tell him he can go to Mexico. And then change the locks while he's there. Tell him he can go to hell.

What a disrespectful guy. No way in hell would my SO do anything like that. Your SO sounds very immature. I wouldn't put up with a guy like that.

Quoting Ms.Eagles:" Smurf that. I would be going to Mexico. Haha...but I've had some trust issues in the past (not with current SO)"

Same here!

How does your SOs sister feel about a binch of his mates that she doesn't even like going to her wedding as opposed to her nephew?

Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" Sorry dear, but this does have "foreign poon with no responsibilities" written all over it. And I think ... [snip!] ... He's living his life as single as possible until he has to play daddy and boyfriend, and you shouldn't be putting up with it. "

  Prove to him that you won't deal with his smurf. It's gonna suck, but you deserve someone who will treat you the way you deserve.

Quoting Mommy to a Taurus  :" Ive never been to mexico, so I dont really know what its all about. I just know my friends who have ... [snip!] ... going? Why is my son not going? Why cant he go to the one in our country if its just the wedding part he wants to witness?"

Because he's lying and trying to make you feel bad for his guilty conscious. I"m sorry you're going through this..

yeah but op will make more excuses and women like her make me want to pull my hair out. it gives douchbags a reason to keep treating other women and children like this.