re: Would this make you uncomfortable?

Quoting Raωkeℓ:" Oh yea- no. Smurf would be going down in my house. He's lying to you...  "

id move while his ass was in mexico

My husband has never cheated and there'd still be a Chernobyl style blow up in our house.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" My husband has never cheated and there'd still be a Chernobyl style blow up in our house."

YUP

Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" how long have you been together? if my so spent 2 grand of our money and i couldnt afford to go yeah that smurf wouldnt happen. he sounds like a douchbag that blames alcohol on smurfing other women. "

We started dating in 2007, my son was born in 2009, we split up for awhile in 2011, we dont live together right now officially but he is at my house pretty much all the time and spends the night often so maybe some people would count that as living together, I dont know. Part of the reason we dont live together is because I take a course online that requires practicums located in a different city, so sometimes I have to find a place to live for a couple months in a city about 1.5-2 hours away.

So in short, we have been together for about 5 years.

Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" id move while his ass was in mexico"

Seriously no smurfing joke. That's got "I'mma get random vag in Mexico" written all over it.

Quoting .:Mary1987:.:" We started dating in 2007, my son was born in 2009, we split up for awhile in 2011, we dont live together ... [snip!] ... a place to live for a couple months in a city about 1.5-2 hours away. So in short, we have been together for about 5 years."

does he pay child support since he does not live with you? does he contribute to the household at all since he stays there alot? if not he is a douchbag loser and you need to drop some dead weight.

Quoting .:Mary1987:.:" he says everything has already been booked. The wedding is in April though and I doubt its all been ... [snip!] ... its all been booked because I saw on her facebook that she was asking other people if they would be able to make it or not."

I would directly go to her and ask if she intentionally didn't invite you, or just express that you would like to be there. Don't make it sound paranoid though. Then, SURPRISE!! we're all going to Mexico! Or you could just trade in his ticket and you and your son can take a trip somewhere without his ass, lol.

Quoting Raωkeℓ:" Seriously no smurfing joke. That's got "I'mma get random vag in Mexico" written all over it."

yup. then he will cry and say the drinks made him do it.

Quoting Raωkeℓ:" Seriously no smurfing joke. That's got "I'mma get random vag in Mexico" written all over it."

Ive never been to mexico, so I dont really know what its all about. I just know my friends who have gone there have all hooked up with guys while there, and that his group of people hes going with includes women.

Its just whenever I bring it up he makes me feel crazy saying "Its my sisters wedding" like hes just going to support his sister. But then, why are his friends going? Why is my son not going? Why cant he go to the one in our country if its just the wedding part he wants to witness?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" yup. then he will cry and say the drinks made him do it. "</blockquote>




As Haley says "once a whore nothing more"

Quoting .:Mary1987:.:" Ive never been to mexico, so I dont really know what its all about. I just know my friends who have ... [snip!] ... going? Why is my son not going? Why cant he go to the one in our country if its just the wedding part he wants to witness?

ever heard of cancun? spring break?

<blockquote><b>Quoting .:Mary1987:.:</b>" Ive never been to mexico, so I dont really know what its all about. I just know my friends who have ... [snip!] ... going? Why is my son not going? Why cant he go to the one in our country if its just the wedding part he wants to witness?"</blockquote>




Why are all of his friends invited (does his sister even know them)? But, not you? That doesn't make any sense!

Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" does he pay child support since he does not live with you? does he contribute to the household at all since he stays there alot? if not he is a douchbag loser and you need to drop some dead weight. "

He doesnt pay child support exactly but he does support our child through his pay. He eats here so he helps pay for the grocery expenses. We all go shopping together for things and sometimes he pays, sometimes I do. We both pay parts of the bills etc. I would say he just lives here, but sometimes he stays in his basement suite (mainly if Im at work or something) so hes not here 100% of the time.

Quoting .:Mary1987:.:" Ive never been to mexico, so I dont really know what its all about. I just know my friends who have ... [snip!] ... going? Why is my son not going? Why cant he go to the one in our country if its just the wedding part he wants to witness?"

Those are all questions that you should be asking. He can say "oh it's my sister's wedding" all he wants- but like others said, he turned this into something else. He can't tell you you cannot contact him while you are there. Smurf, I had friends go to Costa Rica in the middle of nowhere and were still able to contact everyone back home. He's hiding smurf and he isn't even there yet.

Quoting Fancy Asparagus Beef:" <blockquote><b>Quoting .:Mary1987:.:</b>" Ive never been to mexico, so I dont really ... [snip!] ... Why are all of his friends invited (does his sister even know them)? But, not you? That doesn't make any sense!"

 

Dude, didn't even think of that. WHAT THE SmUrf.