she lost him

A friend of mine was 27 weeks monday....went in for her routine check up and they couldnt find a heart beat...she didnt deliver him until 855 this morning...the day after her birthday.. the docs still dont know what happened and are gonna do an autopsy but man do i feel bad for her, all i said was im sorry and im here if n when she needs to talk, but i cant imagine how empty she feels  

That is so terrible so sorry to hear that.

  how sad. Be there if she needs you.

That's so awful. Makes me feel sick to my stomach just thinking about it. I can't imagine....

Quoting lolajessup:"   how sad. Be there if she needs you."

 

I had a ton of people say that they would be there for me, after my stillbirth but when I tried talking to them about Eden, they would always change the subject. It sucks.

How sad, I know I don't know her, but will you let her know that I hope for the best for her. That's a hard loss, I just hope she can recover alright.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andraya DeCouto:</b>" How sad, I know I don't know her, but will you let her know that I hope for the best for her. That's a hard loss, I just hope she can recover alright."</blockquote>


Absolutely. She needs alot of support...shes also a newleywed  

You're such a good friend. Its really nice to know that you have someone willing to lend an ear. Speaking from experience she will need you more a couple months down the road when everyone has seemed to gone back to their life's and she's still stuck if the same spot. So sorry for her lost I will keep her in my thoughts.

I dont feel like a good friend, she lives hours away now and we havent got to talk nearly as much since i became a mom n she got married...we grew apart somewhat...   i feel so bad, about everything.

<blockquote><b>Quoting babyberhow:</b>" I dont feel like a good friend, she lives hours away now and we havent got to talk nearly as much since i became a mom n she got married...we grew apart somewhat...   i feel so bad, about everything."</blockquote>


Sometimes we just have to leave some parts of the past where it's at. Y'all may not be as close as y'all once were but all that matters is that you are there for her now which happens to be when she need a friend the most.

Just been there for her, and comfort her. I lost my bean, 1 year-ago today. My cousin lost her Ruby on September 7th. Its was so heartbreaking. She tried everything to keep her pregnancy viable. Because she was born with a heart condition. She went to her ob,her cardiologist she even went to a pediatric cardiologist. Here they did an autopsy and the umbilical cord was too short. it broke my heart, Ruby and her jet black hair and blue eyes.