Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" Or well did you, get over a divorce/separation that you never wanted? I'm going through this, and even ... [snip!] ... No? I didn't think so. Okay.. So I want what I THOUGHT he was back, not who HE REALLY IS back. There? So any advice? "
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Yeah it does...you want the man you married back but not the one that hurts you!"
Quoting It's Delivered:" Divorce brings out so many emotions. I remind myself of why I left him in the first place."
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" See, I feel like it would be easier if it was ME who left. Like IF I told HIM on Thanksgiving, " Hey douche smurfer! Get out...." Instead of the other way around. "
Quoting Noahs Mommy =]:" yes. doing this right now. I want him back, but at the same time im so disgusted with him and idont want him back "
Quoting MommaNoodle:" i get what you're saying, though i don't really know how to tell you to get over it. i guess your first ... [snip!] ... the unrealistic wishes of the heart, but i know that's not always the case. it's all i've got, though. good luck to you!"
Quoting It's Delivered:" It's never easy being the one who was left. I know it's hard mama. Just pick up the pieces and know there is someone out there for you who will treat you how you deserve, "
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" I think I need counseling.. Because it's been going on for 5 years... And for 5 years, I excused his ... [snip!] ... Like my family and kids? Idfk how to put it. This is how my minds thinking and on paper, it looks illogical and jumbled. "
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" Thank you. Is it normal to want to make rash decisions? Like.. Go get my tubes tied, and never want ... [snip!] ... slutty, but go out and just have sex with random people? I really feel like I shouldn't be saying/thinking these things lol."
Quoting DaniKayT:" Totally normal in my opinion, I filed for divorce today.. the whole time I am thinking WAIT maybe I ... [snip!] ... and hormonal BUT I in my heart still struggle with this a ton and have the same feeling you do. Maybe I need help as well. lol"
Quoting MommaNoodle:" well, if you really feel like you need counseling, i would never be one to say not to go. it's usually ... [snip!] ... but.... it does happen. at first, your feelings are gonna be all jumbled and not make sense. you're still processing it all. "