re: Gay guys and their lisping

Okay this wasn't meant to start a debate. But be honest, it is a stereotype for gay guys to talk with a lisp and flick their wrists and such. It's not necessarily a bad thing at all and i'm not saying that they all do it, but from what I have seen it's pretty common. However, I went to a friends party last month and there was this guy who did speak with a higher voice and he had a lisp, but he also was married with kids. There was some comments made about him and people were asking if he was gay or not just because of it, none were to his face of course. -_-

I was just wondering why some guys (like the one I saw on TV) fake it if it's not natural. Tis all