Quoting Monique and Dominic's mom:" After I had DS, my drive came back. We were in a wreck recently and the trauma from it, well, my sex ... [snip!] ... I'm sure him being kinda pushy doesn't help, I know it doesn't help me. If anything, it annoys me and turns me off even more."
Quoting Justine's Mama:" Its been 2 weeks for me since I gave birth and I have a huge sex drive I have more of a desire then I ... [snip!] ... maybe you will be in the mood for it again. I just give SO head since he is a horn ball and I can't give him any coochie yet. "
Quoting MommyToWesley:" My sex drive is just starting to come back- I'm over 7 months pp. I had such a horrible recovery, and we didn't even have sex for the first time pp until my son was 4 months old. "
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" I'd suck it up. It's hard at first but the more you have sex the more you will want it."
Quoting whoknowsx:" That's where i'm at too. Bad recovery = no desire"
Quoting whoknowsx:" I downed some wine the other night with the hopes that I could suck it up and give him some head but...... I still couldnt do it "
Quoting Justine's Mama:" Hm do you not like giving head ? or its just from you not having no desire for sex at all lately. Maybe ... [snip!] ... having sex so I just stopped all together I think that is why I am wanting it so bad now. Other wise I might not really care. "I use to enjoy giving head, not sure whats going on now. I think the fact that I havent had sex since August has made me somewhat asexual. That + the traumatic healing + breastfeeding has me dry as a dessert with no desire or ability to get wet or turned on.