re: I don't want to have sex.

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" Foreplay? even when I dont feel like it that always manages to convince me. I didnt feel like sex for real until 3 months PP and then I went crazy and got back to my old self. "

Yeah, I guess lots of foreplay + lots of wine + some faking + lube may be the key until I'm back to myself :/

Quoting whoknowsx:" Yeah, I guess lots of foreplay + lots of wine + some faking + lube may be the key until I'm back to myself :/"

Try some self stimulation and see if it helps.

<blockquote><b>Quoting whoknowsx:</b>" I use to enjoy giving head, not sure whats going on now. I think the fact that I havent had sex since ... [snip!] ... That + the traumatic healing + breastfeeding has me dry as a dessert with no desire or ability to get wet or turned on."</blockquote>




Aw, ugh I had that dry desert problem while pregnant and I cpuldnt get into it anymore so I stopped. I hope things are normal when I try again.