re: my friend and her bf want to have a baby!

Quoting sταrry skies:" She's an idiot if she thinks pushing a baby on him will get him to stay. She's also entrapping him if she's going to quit BC and not tell him."

True!

Quoting sταrry skies:" I can't stand those kinds of women."

Me either. Selfish, immature and completely ignorant.

Quoting Michael Westen:" Because that's not totally smurfed up or anything. Girls like that piss me off. Don't make a man a father ... [snip!] ... be. DH's ex wife just got pregnant with her now ex boyfriend without telling him she went off BC. And she's a crazy bitch."

I agree!

Quoting sταrry skies:" I can't stand those kinds of women."

Me 4.

Quoting Michael Westen:" Seriously it sounds like she has some growing up to do."

A LOT of growing up to do.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Me either. Selfish, immature and completely ignorant."

I babysat for a guy whose ex girlfriend had done that. He absolutely adores his kids and is a great dad, but she didn't let him know she had quit taking her BC.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" A LOT of growing up to do."

And unfortunately, literally getting older won't make someone mature. One would think. Lol. DH's ex wife is 25 and did that.

Quoting sταrry skies:" I babysat for a guy whose ex girlfriend had done that. He absolutely adores his kids and is a great dad, but she didn't let him know she had quit taking her BC."

That's so messed up. How does he go on not resenting her? I would have so much anger towards her if I was him.

That's a horrible idea to go off her bc and just get pregnant without even talking about it with the guy first. That's not how this works. Having a kid is a huge responsibility and should be talked about with some sort of maturity. Hiding something like that proves right there that she is not ready at all to be responsible for another person.

Quoting Michael Westen:" And unfortunately, literally getting older won't make someone mature. One would think. Lol. DH's ex wife is 25 and did that."

  It amazes me the maturity level of "grown" adults. SMH

Quoting sταrry skies:" I can't stand those kinds of women."

Ikr smh but i think its just all in her head after everything she just went through i dont think she will let it happen that way but i know there is a lot of girls out there that think that way!!!!!!!!!!!

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" That's so messed up. How does he go on not resenting her? I would have so much anger towards her if I was him."

I think he only deals with her when it comes to the kids.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:"   It amazes me the maturity level of "grown" adults. SMH"

No smurf! That's probably why I'm 21 and all of my friends are over 30. Lol. That's the level I actually am.

Quoting sταrry skies:" I think he only deals with her when it comes to the kids."

Kudos to him for not choppin her to bits and setting her ass ablaze!!

Quoting Michael Westen:" No smurf! That's probably why I'm 21 and all of my friends are over 30. Lol. That's the level I actually am."

I feel ya!! I'm 25 and most of my friends are over 30... as is SO.