First time post! Baby daddy disappointment

Hi everyone, this is my first ever post on here!   So my story is that I'm 34 weeks pregnant, BD and I have been broken up since I was 8 weeks; turned out he'd been hiding the fact that he'd begun taking drugs. We broke up and agreed that if he could get clean then we would try again, so he moved away to his mother's and succeeded; has not taken them since.                                                                                                                                    This is the hard part. Despite getting clean, he doesn't seem to be interested in working it out with me, one week he says he misses me then the next i don't hear from him   If i try to move on he works that much harder to pull me back.                                                                                                                                                             My question to all of you is: How do you deal with the disappointment ? It's hard  

If it were me, i'd not worry about him at ll. You are close to giving birth, and don't need that drma. Keep him informed about his child, but other than that, keep your distance. It'll get easier, just stay strong mama!

Quoting SMF4CPFG:" Hi everyone, this is my first ever post on here!   So my story is that I'm 34 weeks pregnant, BD and ... [snip!] ... My question to all of you is: How do you deal with the disappointment ? It's hard  "

It's hard, but remember you will always have that baby in your tummy.

Nice to meet you.  

I'm sorry you're having a tough time right now.

It's a good sign that he's clean now. Just try to encourage his interest in the baby for now, try to be parents first before thinking about getting back together as a couple.

When the baby is born maybe he will bond with it and he will stop see-sawing back and forth and figure out what he really wants. Hang in there and try to avoid drama.

Yes it is hard, but i would try to put him in the back of your mind right now. You need to focus on YOU and that baby growing inside of you. Only being 6 weeks from full term, you def do not need the extra stress atm.

Its hard but eventually everything will be ok.

Thanks so much for the replies! I do feel for him as we are still young (21) and I've had trouble adjusting myself and i don't even really go out or party   I just wish that he would think it through and decide properly rather than confessing his love one minute then freaking out and avoiding me the next !